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I asked a question few days ago and i got lots of answers but at least half the girls were super mad that i even dared to say that i have standards, so here are mine :

1- attractive to me (doesnt have to be gorgeous just i find her attractive)
2- not fat, dont care if she's fit or has perfect body, even a little belly is cool just not fat
3- can cook and clean - iam not asking she cooks and cleans 24/7 but if my wife can't cook me a hot meal and clean the house 2-3 times a week then she loses a lot of feminity and quality points.
4- she doesn't have to be super smart but not naive is a must, iam sorry but naive girls fall for the weirdest lies and thats not a good quality.
5- nice, caring and simply someone i feel comfortable with.
6- Not slutty and didn't slee paround or hook up with random guys.
7- wants a family and likes to be a mother.

Iam not asking you to argue with me, just tell me if you think my standards are realistic or too high for you.

P. S: these are the base standards for the majority of men i know old and young alike, and if you look at it from a realistic stand point, nothing on my list is actually high in fact in short iam describing a decent. wife material girl.

I've been at college for about 2 years, made plenty of friends and met many guys and girls and texted dozens of girls and went out with a few, before that i dated 2-3 girls at work and had a couple gfs, according to everyone iam a pretty attractive guy (wish i knew during highschool lol) ...

Anyways, i remeber the first girl i ever went out with and grew to like because she was pretty and had desirable qualities, I was really nice, cared about her and showed her that after going on 3 dates together, what i got in return was that she ignored me, hurt me and acted mean... i retailiated by acting like a typical badboy, becoming more attractive (facial hair, and new style ), ignoring her ( according to an article i read) and ohhh boy did she come back crawling to me, we remained friends though due to other issues.

Which brings me to the big question : should men actually listen to women if they ever wanna get a shot with the woman they want? women claim to want sensitive men but go for unemotional guys, they want nice guys but usually date guys with a hint of assholeness in them who aren't afraid to be asses to these same women, they want guys to be clear but choose guys who never actually admit to liking them... and before you say anything i did all of the above and it works, quite a lot if i may say.

So here's the question , answer it, guys any girls alike and lets hear your views.

She likes those babyfaced Asian kids too much which is weird since she looks very high quality non primitive mature lady (not old looking, just mature) especially for an Asian and it also makes me feel weird and a bit insecure because I look the furthest from those guys, I legit look like I could be the dad of half the guys she likes. Even though we flirt quite a lot and she says she finds me attractive, I feel like I will never be as hot to her as an average korean beta cuck with makeup.