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I need to get over this delusional mindset that a guy and a girl out together = couple
I suffer from high-functioning autism, am really good with beginner social interactions and social media, and I see a video of a girl and a guy doing TikTok booty dances in the same video, I immediately feel jealous. Addison Rae did the same crap with her BROTHER. People thought that was her boyfriend.

Guys and gals can make friends without ever making it sexual or even a date. I just have a hard time making friends, ESPECIALLY FEMALE friends, outside of school because of my shyness and outbursts. I need to start putting my damn self in other people's shoes. Autistic men have no sympathy... that's unfortunate for more than 70% of autistic men (+20% if of European/MENA descent, which includes me) actually..

My mind explodes when a girl that I talk to literally takes a pic with a guy next to her. I feel jealous because she doesn't caption "boo" or "boyfriend." I feel completely different when it's two girls or two guys. Admittedly, my culture (Jordanian and Armenian) views "traditional gender roles" (read: toxic masculinity... which actually makes men lowkey weaker than women) as ideal. Most of my cousins especially on the Jordanian side have ditched that ideology. (Armenians tend to be ultraconservative.)

(Now before I go into detail, I KNOW some of you are gonna joke about the Amazon Rainforest, Amazon. com, tall women in general, or eBay. I am NOT talking about that, and I expect your answers to be serious. NO F**KING AROUND.)

For context, I made a question asking people what their ideal height in a man or woman is. What is your ideal height in a man/woman, and why?

And during that question, I said that I find 5'9 to 6'4 the best height for a woman, because she's gonna be stronger than a short woman. Then I said that I know some guys like tall women because they find their long legs appealing, but that those long legs aren't why I find tallness in women attractive. My little speech there ended with the sentence,

"I'm looking for an Amazon, not a model."

So that got me thinking, maybe I should make that a question!

Basically, my question to the boys is this: If you had to choose between one of the Amazons from Greek mythology, or a model, which would you choose to date--or even marry, if you wanna go that far?

A tall, slender, feminine model with legs that go all the way to heaven? Or a tall, strong descendant of Ares (the Greek god of war) whose life is all about war, hunting, and killing?

The terror exist in presice proportion to the retraction to the woman. What I mean by this is depending on the woman themselves and maybe how attracted we are to them, that will increase our fear of being rejected. It's like the more pretty they are the more pain us men feel from women's rejection. Honestly it's a horrible paradox situation to be in. This is why men make such fools of ourselves in front of women that we are attracted to. It's because first of all us men don't see the woman that we are attracted to because what the hell do we know about her, we don't see her as an individual, we see her as the manifestation of a judgmental ideal. Men see her for her beauty in other words.

Yes women are people and should always be treated as such but what I a lot of women don't realize is men see and look for your physical features FIRST whereas a woman does not.