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Background: I’ve been spending time with a new guy for a little over a month now, getting to know each other. When he picked me up for a date, I noticed a custom trinket that he has hanging from his rear view mirror. I looked at it closely and it had a “drive safe” message engraved with a girl’s name and a heart on it. I asked him about it and he said it was from his ex.

I was taken aback because I don’t personally keep gifts from exes, especially something that seems sentimental. He told me a bit about her and that things didn’t necessarily end on a bad note, they just ended up wanting different things but they’re cool with each other. Jokingly I told him that he probably still has feelings for her, then he told me if that were the case, we wouldn’t be seeing each other.

I only ever really hear about issues with women keeping jewelry from exes but out of curiosity for the men, is keeping something like this, a custom gift that you probably look at regularly, a big deal? Or this probably means nothing?

Please give your honest opinion.

For example if she dresses very feminine would you assume maybe she's very girly and submissive, probably physically weak, likes shopping, makeup, jewelry etc and maybe assume she wouldn't be down into getting dirty or certain physical activity's

Or tomboyish style, assume she would like doing more guyish things like sports, or enjoys getting dirty, being dominant, less ladylike manners etc

Or if she had a geeky look she might be intelligent, into gaming, reading, educational documentaries etc

When i say hyper feminine, i mean women who dress extremely girly/feminine, wear mainly only dresses, pink, jewelry, get their nails done, heels, skirts? or if they're too girly can it be off putting to a man, whats your reason for your answer?