For example if she dresses very feminine would you assume maybe she's very girly and submissive, probably physically weak, likes shopping, makeup, jewelry etc and maybe assume she wouldn't be down into getting dirty or certain physical activity'sOr tomboyish style, assume she would like doing more guyish things like sports, or enjoys getting dirty, being dominant, less ladylike manners etcOr if she had a geeky look she might be intelligent, into gaming, reading, educational documentaries etc
Yes, i look at a way a woman is dressed and make assumptions about her personality, what she might be like
No i don't i only can tell if i talk to them
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Guys, do you judge a womans personally on the way she dresses?
Clothes are indicative; but they don't tell the whole story. Talking to someone brings clarity and context.
I once met a bubbly gal last month with a skimpy-looking shirt that looked like something from Adventure Time walk into the store and buy some tobacco from me.
At first, she just looked a little weird, maybe slutty, but not dangerous. Then, I noticed her shirt's unicorn had two horns, and was actually a goat. With a pentagram. I was like: "That... is a goat?"
She pulls down the part of her shirt that was hidden. It was a satanic message. She looked doped to the gills, probably on weed. Using drugs and tobacco to suppress the depression that being in the service of demons was causing her.
Suddenly, all her actions made sense - including buying the cigs. She must have still been pretty high, because she was in what appeared to be the manic phase of bi-polar, and wasn't acting all murder-psycho. She was actually friendlier than some of the usual rednecks that come into the store.
I was a little creeped out; but not as threatened as I'd feel if it were a gangbanger with sagging pants. I've met those too. Unreasonable dicks, and always looking for a fight.
I'm hoping some sort of spiritual intervention gets to her, before she finds out the hard way that Hell isn't cute unicorn-goats with pentagrams farting rainbows. It's more like the movie A Quiet Place, but always at night. And with temperatures always in the upper 90s or hotter, heavy pressurized smelly air, and desert landscapes with no end to them, it will feel like you're on Venus.
The girl you show up top... girly. But I don't know if that's in a good or bad way. Or if it matters. The tomboyish gal is most attractive to me right off the bat; but she may be a tool. If she can be submissive and honest and feminine when it counts, I can usually tolerate her tomboyishness elsewhere. But I have limits.
As for the geeky girl... gotta watch out for them. Regardless of how they dress, they can be very manipulative - and are usually prone to perversions that scare away even most dudes. I dated a geek girl once... and... stay guarded, gentlemen. They can be downright sketchy!
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Anonymous
(25-29)
+1 y
I'm gonna be brutally honest and admit I do profile I do make judgements based on outfit cause mostly I know that based on how a girl dresses it shows her self value and personality. Even if its just surface level. Its still shows what types of style, and major influence she is using to show publically.
I'm tottally okay with girls wanting to be eye candy but its pretty tellling when they are owning the look and when its just a look they got forced to wear by their friend and or girlfriend. Who's probably has no clue if the outfit actually fits them. I'd prefer honestly a girl to wear something comfy and cute over something that just screams my girlfriend over there picked out this bikini or skimpy oufit and I just went along with it. :rooderp:
And then is just grilling the guy/stranger over if they look good or not. Which brings me to point number two girls like guys for me at least got a pretty strong aura of when they are comfortable or VERY uncomfortable. The latter I'll just remove myself from the equation if that comes to a head like a blister or pimple.
"It is 'reasonable' that TYPICALLY male or female, One dresses to express and 'advertise' themself or potential and intentions.
When I worked as a sworn uniformed police officer... Society EXPECTED, even DEMANDED , that citizens had certain expectations of both how I... and THEY... should behave to one another. Each's roles bound-up and modified in subjective personal past, life interactions.
Ex: Though unspoken, consider how even the youngest of this present generation intuitively pre-judges and reacts to the potential behaviors of adolescent females who elect to dress using thigh-high lacy topped 'socks'.
Their reactions are 'rooted' in the societal hypocrisy that those represent 'just socks'. In that, it is socially deviant in imagining running One's hand from the girl's ankle along and upward her stocking'd inner thigh. Causing goosebumps and increasing the heart rate of BOTH the intrusive Masseur and the concupscient female.~ ;)
You know what's really cool about meeting people are meeting girls and talking to them you can look at them and start drooling and then you can talk to them can you find out who they are on the inside because that is the real them and there's been many times where I will say nice meeting you see you got to go. And then there's times where I'll meet a girl and start to get to know her from the inside out and it might take me two weeks. something will catch my eyes I'm talking with her and I will actually stop and take a good look at her and say what the fuck you are gorgeous. I mean I've looked at but I didn't really look deeply at her if you judge you go if you pick up on a Girl by the way she looks or the way she dresses it'll never work somewhere down the road you'll realize it's the person on the inside that counts
Well fundamentally that is how any human works. So of course. if i wear a band top, of course your gonna assume what other bands i am into based off it and what my personality may be of it. It's not done in a malicious way it can be tho. But mostly it's just normal human deduction of using a brain lol. People see stuff and automatically link it to something. For example you see the color red it either links to I don't know blood or romance or something else depending on your mindset.
I judge people by what they wear, so i agree, i don't think its a bad thing because what your wear is a statement of your mind and personality it says a lot about someone, but i just curious to see how others think.
Aye that it is normally it say's a lot, Sometimes it can be deceiving tho. For example i wear joggers or trackies, which is not typical wear for more goth personality. People would often relate that to black jeans or something. Then i don't do much with make up that is also related to goth. If it wasn't for my hair or my T-shirts and hoodies and jackets been merch to bands usually one probably wouldn't notice i am alternative.
Actually I am more in Yorkshire kinda middle point between England and Scotland, and no one say's aye here. Nor do i lmao. I just say it a lot in text for some odd reason.
No but the way a woman dresses can be an indication of her priorities. For example if a woman walks around in public wearing outfits one might expect a stripper to wear on stage then one might guess she's seeking sexual attention. If a cat is walking around backwards it's an indication that cat is in heat. If a woman is dressed in an attractive but not "slutty" looking dress then it's an indication that she might be seeking romance but she's not "easy." If she is wearing business casual then one might think that she is not at that moment interested in a date with me, unless we are at an office and she is flirting with me.
Most people prejudge people before they actually get to know them so it’s definitely possible based off someone’s appearance to assume they are what you think they are but most the time we are wrong when we prejudge someone based off their appearance until we actually get to know them , I do like girl’s that dress cute or sexy but I also like when they can just be themselves and dress comfy around the house as well
First impressions count. I won't "judge" her on the way she dresses for a first date/meeting, but it would certainly lead me to make some assumptions. After we have time together, I may find those assumptions either true or not, or somewhere on the continuum between same.
Absolutely, I don't judge people for much more than what they wear. The less clothes they have on the less likely I am to talk to them. Anybody who finds it necessary to show skin to get attention doesn't want the attention I would give them (bring in the upset parent voice)
Yes. Your clothes are an extension of who you are. Anyone who says no either doesn't care whatsoever, or is lying out their ass. That's why you don't show up to a job interview wearing the stained clothes you slept in Sunday night.
Absolutely, I judge on materialism level, maturity projected, and statement being made. There is no contest to feminine dress; it is downhill from there. If she dresses like a fruitcake, then she is a fruitcake. If she dresses like a carnie freak, then she is a feminist. If she dresses like a farm girl and smells like animals, well I kind of like that one. How simple can this quiz be?
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Anonymous
(30-35)
+1 y
The way you dress is an outward expression of yourself. Why is it such a mystery, then, that people use it to determine a basic sense of your personality?
How many respectable women have you ever seen that were dressed like hookers? How many tomboys who dressed prim and proper?
Depending on how she's dressed, I will definitely make some assumptions about her, but I won't really know anything unless we talk for a while. Or, I might overhear her conversation if she's close by, and that will give away some information too.
Everybody judges everybody and those who say they don't Try to put up facade of being gods of wisdom... So yeah we are judged by our clothes, our face and the way we carry ourselves... Simple
Clothing is designed to say a lot. The problem is figuring out what the person means. I do judge based on clothing, but not on that alone, as their behavior and demeanor gives context to what it means.
I judge everyone by their appearance, which is pretty much what everyone does. If a guy wears skinny jeans and a pink t-shirt I think he's a girly-boy, and if a girl wears more manly clothes I dislike her as a rule.
Your style tells a lot about you, so yeah. Your subconsciousness dictates you what to put on yourself and it is rooted deeply in your traits as a person.
