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Search Results: how to get my confidence up
Why are people mad that I'm finally acknowledging my intelligence?
I'm autistic, but wasn't diagnosed until as an adult. Growing up I dealt with bullying from siblings and schoolmates; because I came off as stupid, airheaded, a and a source of jesterlike entertainment. I struggled in...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do guys that think they’re hopeless with women just give up so easily?
I get girls all the time, but it’s because I take care of myself. Like I have a friend who’s an amazing guy, but his confidence in himself makes him think no girl will want him. All it takes is getting your body fat...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do I feel like being around the right group of men has given me so much more confidence around women? Why is my life story so transformative?
And are all college frats really bad? I’m doing things now I never thought possible before. You see growing up I always talked down on myself and saw myself as lesser than others. My parents taught me to be humble...
WhiteBoyChill
Yoda Age: 25 How do I ask for this girls number at my gym?
Hi, so i have had this gym crush for a while now, and im trying to work up my confidence to ask for her number, but I don't know how. Its a small gym so it seems crowded even if it's not. Sad to say but I'm used to get...
JackThompson2
Xper 3 Age: 29 Confidence: The thing that you NEED but don’t have
Confidence . Confidence is something many people struggle with, whether not knowing how to do it or not knowing it at all, many people have the wrong ideas about what the key to confidence actually is. A lot people think...
Ascarymanasks
Xper 5 Age: 19 Why have I changed so much in the past year from the guy who’s afraid to approach women, to the guy who wants to approach them all the time?
Like I’ve gained an unreal amount of confidence in myself its insane! I’m eager to walk up to women, introduce myself, invite them on dates, and get to know them. I used to be scared as balls with all this “I...
WhiteBoyChill
Yoda Age: 25 I attract shy guys. Is it me or is it them?
Okay, so I guess I attract shy guys. And I mean super shy guys! I don't know why shy guys are attracted to me. Most of them I've never even talked to before. I see them around school but that's it. I like a guy with...
Anonymous
(25-29) I have low confidence around my boyfriend & I feel awkward. What can I do?
Hi guys I'm a pretty shy girl & I started dating a guy who is way out of my league, at least I feel like. I'm normally really confident but when I get around this guy I just melt. I had sort of a weird childhood where I...
Anonymous
(25-29) 4 ways to build TRUE attraction
1. Be genuine . Being genuine about your purpose with the person you want is probably one of the most important things in building attraction, as it shows that you are there for them and you aren’t just doing everything...
Ascarymanasks
Xper 5 Age: 19 Why do women seem to really appreciate when a man makes an honest effort to get to know them? Is being respectful and sincere what attracts them?
Growing up I used to think you had to know all these gimmicky tricks in order to attract women. I used to think you had to be some sort of super amazing guy that knows how to say all the right things. But truth...
WhiteBoyChill
Yoda Age: 25 Girls, Would you date a guy who gets bullied?
I only get teased a little bit in school normally. It was really just getting called names sometimes but that happens to everyone. In bio this one kid shoots spitballs which is embarrassing but not too bad. But a...
Jake113
Xper 1 Age: 24 The Truth Behind Being An Exotic Dancer
Exotic Dancers Are performers, like any other dancer/performer. Despite popular belief, they are not sex workers of any kind. While there are some cases of dancers who will accept offers for more, the majority do not. For...
Why am I never good enough?
Yes I'm fat. And yes maybe guys wouldn't want me. But I thought SOME men preferred big women. I thought men wanted and desired big women (SOME) MAYBE NOT. I got a pretty sister, and pretty friends. I'm always ignored....
MissDepressy
Xper 1 Age: 28 Why does every guy keep ghosting me on dating apps?
I’ve never dated before so I’ve decided to try out some dating apps to see what would happen. Unfortunately I keep getting ghosted by guys whenever I start talking to one. Things seem fine at first, I keep the...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why am I never good enough?
Yes I'm fat. And yes maybe guys wouldn't want me. But I thought men preferred big women. I thought men wanted and desired big women. MAYBE NOT. I got a pretty sister, and pretty friends. I'm always ignored. Whenever...
MoreThanaVegasDoll
Xper 1 Age: 29 I need some advice?
Recently my girlfriend and I broke up. I took it pretty hard. I know I need to get back out there and mingle. Only problem is my confidence is shot. I have some disadvantages in this department, since I don't make a lot...
Anonymous
(36-45) What are some things a woman can do to find a men?
So I am someone who got called ugly growing up, I never really had any friends I was mostly a loner introverted girl with zero confidence and very low self-esteem, as I have gotten older While I am still introverted and I...
Anonymous
(36-45) How can I beat back my anxiety in person? How can I translate online success to in person success? My brain still hasn’t made the connection yet?
The truth is I’m far less anxious online. But It’s virtually the same thing in practice! I’m beginning to recognize that I’m the only one that’s been holding myself back this entire time! It isn’t that...
WhiteBoyChill
Yoda Age: 25 Pageants vs Modelling. Which one should you choose?
Hello fellow beautiful humans, I am here with another take that will most likely only get a few opinions but hey , who cares right? Even if one of you enjoy this, it is worth the effort and time. Today's topic is pageants...
Beautyforeverybody
Xper 6 Age: 29 Losing weight I need help?
I'm on my journey of wanting to lose 100 pounds. I'm 226 now I'm 5ft1 (155 cm) anyways, I wanna be healthy and fit. I'm done being big. I need confidence and health in my life. I'm 24, but I'm not enjoying things in my...
FITINTraining
Xper 1 Age: 28 