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So, I just had a birthday and two exes that I'm still quite close to, didn't bother to wish me. The one is one social media with me and the other one isn't however, nevertheless, I feel seen as we're still good friends they should remember and make the effort. I remember every single ex's birthday so it's beyond me how they can not remember.

Also, my love interest, someone I've been chatting to for 4-5 months now, as kept reminding me, "hey, it's your birthday coming up" on this date blah blah, didn't bother to wish me. Messaged about something completely off topic today but no well wishes. I totally went out of my way to wish her on hers two months ago so I find this very hurtful and confusing.

Am I overreacting and being ridiculous in re-evaluating how I see / rank these relationships/friendships, or, should I seriously consider pulling away.

I'm pretty hurt. I've had a shit birthday as it is and I'm always such a giver.

I saw this on REDDIT yesterday and I was appalled. I just HAD to Post it and Get your Own at Home Opinion here. This married Woman who is Pregnant with her First Child, Tells her Husband he can GO to his Ex's Funeral. He asked her if he could Go and Not take Her, But take a few Friends from School who knew her way back in the day. Sounds Okay. Apparently, When he and this EX split up years Ago, He took it VERY Bad. When his wife met Him, He was still grieving and it took awhile for him to even Fall for her. She was a HUGE comfort to him. He then moved on and was NOT in touch with the Ex. Good move on his Part and Heart. Now we are coming to the Best Part. He came Home from the Funeral and on his Arm, Was a band-aide. She asked Him what happened? He proceeded to Take it Off and on his Arm---A TAT WITH HIS EX'S NAME ON IT!!! He went to the Tat salon and had it Done after the Service!!! His poor Wife was so Devastated that she nearly Keeled over. I felt so Sorry for her. How could he? I find it Disrespectful! He has her NAME on His arm to Remind him of her OUT OF RESPECT, He claims? No love Lost, He Exclaims? Any thoughts? xx

Him and I was friends for 5 years before our baby and relationship. We broke up February this year. It ended badly. He posted this song to his Facebook.

Here's the lyrics:

We started off as close friends
Somehow you turned into my girlfriend
We used to tell each other everything
I even went and bought her diamond rings, matching earrings
Everything was so cool
Lately baby been actin' so rude
I don't know what somebody told you
But I ain't gon' lie, I miss the old you
I know you remember how I would hold you
Still remember how I approached you
I think I loved you 'fore I knew you
Know we be fuckin' 'fore I screwed you
Made a promise I won't use you
Play my cards right, I won't lose you
Got 'em tuned in like I'm YouTube
Got some' on me like it's voodoo
I'll go nuts for you, go cuckoo, lose my cool and all
And I know that shit was wrong, I shouldn't've did what I did
Just wipe your eyes and stop this cryin'
I told the truth, that I'd been lyin'
I gave you racks, I tried to buy in
I even did the unthinkable, I'm sorry for what I did to you
Take me back, if I was you and I did what I did
I probably would, I probably wouldn't
Take you back, if I was you and I did what I did
I probably would, I probably wouldn't