Search Results: too busy for a relationship

My friend has a go at me all the time and it’s starting to annoy me?

I’m quite bad with communication on text and remembering to text people. I’m 20 and she is 20. Like lately she has been having Ago at me like crazy I feel like I’m 16 again in school? •She had a go at me the other...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Male friends with benefits acting almost boyfriend-like then suddenly acting distant. Why?

So this one's a little tricky. I've been seeing a friends with benefits for about 4 months now, but prior to that we dated for 5 months. While we dated, everything was pretty much perfect - i. e regular, fun-filled dates,...

Elise10

Xper 2 Age: 35

Marriage & Weddings

I think I ruined my marriage

I am the sole provider for my husband, toddler, and I. I work 60hr weeks, i donate plasma twice weekly, and now recently i have taken on an online sugar daddy. I have never had financial stability until now. When both my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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How long to wait before having “the talk”?

Been seeing this guy for 4 months now. How soon is too soon to ask him where he sees this going? He just gotten out of a relationship and seems busy with work so I don’t want to rush him to DTR, just curious about his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why does my ex want nothing to do with me?

I just don’t understand what happened here. My ex of over 2 years named Lacey broke up with me suddenly 2 months ago with out giving much explanation. The usual BS I’m too busy with work, I don’t know what I want...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

He hasn’t texted me all day?

So, I’ve been dating/talking to this guy pretty seriously for about two months. He lives a couple hours away, so we’ve only met up for in-person dates twice, but have had several video dates & usually text every day and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I (18M) confessed my feelings to my crush (19F) over text. Is there a chance she likes me back? (convo attached below)?

I hung out with her one on one alone for the first time a few weeks ago. We had a great time together, and she clarified saying she had a fun time too shortly after. I'm already friends with her by now since we had been...

HumbleMike

Xper 3 Age: 22

What are his intentions?

So, I met this guy, and we've been hanging out. It's going really well, but I want to get an idea of what this guy's intentions are. When we first met, he really emphasized how he was trying to find "the" girl / a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Has anyone ever dated an avoidant person?

I dated a woman for almost 2 years that I think was an avoidant person. What do think? From the very beginning she would show some interest in getting to know me but then back off. After our first date I texted her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, Why can't she make up her mind?

I've had a back and forth with this girl for years. It's always been a very Cheers, Sam and Diane beating around the bush about our feelings type thing, flirting and wooing and teasing before we irritate each other for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do I trust this guy or is he playing me?

I've been through some abuse so I'm paranoid. Tell me if I'm being unfair. I've met this 33 M who works for my bosses husband. He's stayed here a few times in the last 2 months and the 2nd or 3rd time we kissed while I...

KittyImpala67

Xper 5 Age: 30

How do I get through to him?

I just feel so sad and neglected. The only time I feel wanted is when I’m too busy for him. I feel like the relationship is becoming 90/10 and I’m doing the most work. I love him so much. I’ve tried to explain how I feel...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Education & Career

How to Actually Survive Your Freshman Year of College

First off, congratulations on being lucky enough to avoid having your Freshman year start in 2020. I can mainly start off this piece by not having to talk about potential imminent threats to your health and safety, so...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Why can’t I find a girl who want to date and have relationship with me? Is it anything I do wrong, or forget to do? any tips?

I’m try to be an attractive guy: - Tall - Dark - Fit - Confident in my own skin - Talented chef - Job - Stable income - Owning my own house - No debt - Driving licence - Kind to everyone around me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I not go back and move on?

So i have been in a relationship with this guy for abouth 7 or 8 months and it was an on snd ofc relationship. In the beginning it was so good he loved me so much and was everything that i wanted in a boyfriend he treated...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Folks what would you rather choose after you find a confident person then huge job offers just opens up?

Would you choose a potential partner or because the new single CEO in a multi-billion dollar company with no romantic times. I had two people who choose their jobs over me and the last girl pick her job over me...

scott04sa22

Guru Age: 40

Would you choose a potential partner or because the new single CEO in a multi-billion dollar company with no romantic times. I had two people who choose their jobs over me and the

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Guys, Did I do the right thing by breaking things off with a man I still have strong feelings for?

The man I was seeing is still interested in me (I’m fairly certain that I’m even out of his league- I’m early 20s and attractive, he is mid 30s and probably barely/doesn’t make 6 figures but that’s ok to me) but every...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I overthinking to ask to meet up with him, is this a green light?

I’ve been speaking to a boy on and off for around 7 months. Wow didn’t realise how long it’s been myself, we met up and we spent the whole day together. He messaged me every other day but he’s not much of a good texter...

Anonymous

(25-29)