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Me and my friend have just been having some issues with guys. When she had a boyfriend, all was good and well. Recently I got into my own relationship, and my friend well, she kinda hates my boyfriend. Her boyfriend isn't the biggest fan of mine either. See it's kinda like me and my boyfriend are the little misfits who happened to find each other. Like neither of us have ever had very good home lives, and so to cope sometimes we drink a little, and a lot of times we smoke pot. So they both see him as a bad influence. Which I guess is fair enough, but also I'd be drinking anyway. I just wouldn't smoke because he won't tell me where he gets his from.
What makes me mad though is that my "friend" is one of those people who have never really had a bad life. She's grown up in a nice house with both her parents, her dad has his own business, and she's going to a university for a useless degree and taking useless extra classes. Her boyfriend is a marine, also in college. Neither me or my boyfriend are in college. My friend is constantly calling my boyfriend stupid, and other just mean things. But it's like, I do the same stuff he does. So I guess I am too. That said, MINE, treats me well, and I can actually talk to him about deep personal stuff without feeling weird about it. Meanwhile my friend doesn't feel open to tell her boyfriend anything. And I can't really talk to her about anything either without feeling judged, or she acts like she doesn't care and doesn't wanna listen. Then her own boyfriend is over there getting naked pictures from other girls, yet mine is still the bad one.

So I haven't spoken to my friend in a few days. Would you guys and girls ever choose your so over your friends?

How He Acts Around Me
•I'm literally the only girl he goes to in Gym class and he still goes to me when we're not there
•He stands close when besides me
•I catch him staring at me
•He smiles at me without me trying
•He always makes time to talk to me everyday
•He starts the conversations
•He offers to help me out with anything
•He asks me questions about myself
•When I'm doubting and degrading
myself he disagrees and encourages me

What's Happened

Situation 1: A few months ago I asked his friends if I could sit at their lunch table with them and they never gave me an answer)

He asked why I wanted to sit with his friends because their bad influences and then he said that it wasn't his choice to not let me be with them though

Situation 2: He saw me alone and asked why and then he told me to go out there where everyone else was and look for my friends.

Situation 3: He called me then I saw that he was walking off the bleachers with something in his hand, he opened them and there he held two wrapped chocolates.

Situation 4 :In the gym I got a volleyball but then another guy insisted for me to let him join and so I did. I caught my crush staring over at us and then he asked me if I wanted to play soccer with him and I said yes.

•He had me be on his team
•He allowed me to take my time while the person on the other team was getting impatient
•He taught me techniques of soccer

How He Acts Around Me
•I'm literally the only girl he goes to in Gym class and he still goes to me when we're not there
•He stands close when besides me
•I catch him staring at me
•He smiles at me without me trying
•He always makes time to talk to me everyday
•He starts the conversations
•He offers to help me out with anything
•He asks me questions about myself
•When I'm doubting and degrading
myself he disagrees and encourages me

What's Happened

Situation 1:(A few months ago I asked his friends if I could sit at their lunch table with them and they never gave me an answer)

He asked why I wanted to sit with his friends because their bad influences and then he said that it wasn't his choice to not let me be with them though

Situation 2:He saw me alone and asked why and then he told me to go out there where everyone else was and look for my friends.

Situation 3:He called me then I saw that he was walking off the bleachers with something in his hand, he opened them and there he held two wrapped chocolates.

Situation 4:In the gym I got a volleyball but then another guy insisted for me to let him join and so I did. I caught my crush staring over at us and then he asked me if I wanted to play soccer with him and I said yes.

•He had me be on his team
•He allowed me to take my time while the person on the other team was getting impatient
•He taught me techniques of soccer