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With so many options available to women, many young girls have the mindset that men are replaceable.

They will flake on you if another guy gives her a better offer even if she made a promise to go on date. They will dump you if they are sure that another male who she deems better than you wants a relationship with her and not just a booty call.

Some girls have the sadistic pleasure of leading guys on and thinking they are interested in them when they just want attention then go ghost, once they get a boyfriend.
While dating for men tends to be a numbers game. Average guys usually has to approach A LOT of girls and find one that is willing to go on a date with him.
After which the guy will be more emotional invested and chase the girl because he doesn't know when he's going to get another girl he likes to say yes. So you find men tend to form emotional connection faster, and become almost a bit obsess in wanting to be with the girl.

Men tend to take relationships and dating more serious than women even during the early phases of courtship. Hence, why you'll never see a girl get bent out of shape at an average guy cutting contact with her.

And when the girl flakes on him, goes no contact or even dumps him it tends to hurt men a lot more than it does women because it was more an investment for men than women and women can always find another you.
Remember, woman often post break up can find a new man within a week or even month. A guy will be back to ground zero.

Many young men get strung up on a girl who rejected them, or ghosted on them or even dump them and can't seem to get over the girl for months and years. This kind of thing can eat at a guy's heart until he hardens his heart.
With that being said should more men begin adopting women are replaceable mentality and stop thinking a girl is special? In this way if a girl does any of this shit he can shrug it off his shoulders and stop trying to fight for a girl who thinks of him as backup option at best.

There's this girl I know. Before she would act like she liked me. She would tell all her friends about me and make it really obvious she was into me. One day I tried to ask her out and she didint even let me say the words. She was reallyrude and told me "no I know what your gonna say and no, go away". But then later on that day she txts me and tryes to act all cool, telling me that she was just not yet over her ex. I got mad and ignored her for a few days. She kept txtng and txtng me untill finally I replied. I tried to show I dont care and this pretty much made her chase after me. Then I found out she's talking to her ex's cousin and it kinda seems like she likes him, even though he's fat and ugly. she's telling people that she likes him more than me, but to be honest there is no way that can be true and there is no way they can date because he said he can't date his cousins ex. I feel like she's just trying to get me jealous. Still, somedays she wants me to hang out with me at school, and other days she won't even say hi to me. The other day I told her to wear one of her jackets to school. She did, but then she ignored me and kept talking to that other guy. Yeasterday I told her to cut the crap and be straight up with me. She said she does care but just has a lot on her mind. Last night we were txting and I kept flirting with her, saying cheesy lines telling her that I like her and we should date. She seemed like she liked it and kept it going. Im just wondering what she wants with me because somedays she acts like she wants me, but the next day she will be really rude with me. Whats her problem? We're both 20 by the way

I was dating this girl and she just cut contact for about a month,
but not told me she don't want to see me again, then kept liking posts about like the images below, even though she said
she felt comfortable with me,
agreed to a third date,
paid for the 2nd,
said without me asking to keep ringing her as she is not ignoring me but how do i do that without coming across as needy.
I would say I am being ghosted but she is a brutally honest person at least she was on the dates.

The only things I can think I did wrong was:
I have not kissed her yet, although I did kiss her on the temple,
I said I would call Saturday night but did not although I have tried calling a lot since.
Not complimented her enough
I have only asked her out twice since than
Her previous ex's both cheated on her

I got angry so I deleted off Facebook after she ignored me the first week and did not respond to my text saying I liked her a lot do you feel the same!
I tried to re-add her but she has not accepted nor declined my request! She reads my messages but like a week later and don't respond, don't pick up my calls and never rings back -

With the ex thing she posted this on her mates wall, but the ex i think she is talking about is now with another girl, does this below mean she's done with her ex as i was on a date with her 1 1/2 months ago-

The face you pull at me 😂😂

Loool all the time

Like its official this time 😂 2 months 👌

It's hard as all the advice I get say that I should not chase her as it makes me look needy but her words on the date was to keep calling her and a lot of woman say I should keep reaching out?