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Hey girls, so I am 21 years old and I've wanted to settle down already, get a wife and kids. To be happy.
I am handsome, cute, passionate about the things I do, I am a funny joker most of the time and giving. Some of those are the things girls have told me. But I feel like that is not the case or the truth. Girls are mean to me. One day girls are smiling and laughing while I am being funny and nice to them, the second day they have changed like what we had yesterday having fun talking was just a fake dream. What happened? This happens so often and I feel betrayed...
I used to be a shy boy, but now I am confident. At this point you are thinking I am a cocky guy. Clear that thought off your mind.
I am getting nowhere with girls. I get no girl to look at me, well I do. The only girls that like me are the ones who do a lot of drugs and stuff. It is not the kind of attention I want. I feel like I am losing hope and I got no other choice, but to settle down with those types of girls. I don't do drugs, I don't smoke or drink. I play basketball so I like to keep myself healthy. Girls don't look at me, and I am not expecting them to approach me. but not to even get a gaze? Something has to be wrong.
What does a guy like me have to do in order to get what he wants in love? My time is ending. If I don't get a girl at 24, It's over for me.

I am not tall (5''7), I am not rich, but I am talented and competitive.

Anyway my situation is so bad that I don't feel like playing basketball anymore, doing anything socially. I honestly feel like I am cursed.

Please don't give me an answer which makes the girls look like the victims here. I want a honest answer. Not an answer that hits a nerve you know? as in the answer makes no sense. If you think I am being a pitiful person, don't. Let whatever you think you feel like the answer you want to put out is, as long as it makes sense, progress for me to get an idea of some sort to understanding of the situation. Thank you

When girls want a relationship they look for nice guys. Guys who will care and be there for them. Guys who respect them and guys that will treat them well. They want nice guys to cuddle with and spend time with.

But when these girls are single they want a different kind of guy altogether. When girls are single they hookup and have sex with "bad-boy" type guys. Attractive guys, usually with tattoos, cool hair. They often smoke and are very good at talking to girls. When girls are single they go out to bars, clubs and parties and meet these kinds of guys and then they go home with them. It's called a one night stand for those who don't know. Also some girls have fuckbuddies and friends with benefits, these are purely sexual relationships and girls only want "bad-boys" for sex. Pretty much "bad-boys" are the guys girls hookup in between their various relationships. Girls essentially use these guys for sex but when it comes to real relationships they want "nice guys".

*By nice guys I don't mean those guys who pretend to be nice in order to get sex. I am referring to genuinely decent guys*