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And I don't want to push him. I can see he's still angey with me and he has reason to be. I just want a chance to explain but I can't seem to earn enough trust to get him to agree to meet. I think he might think it's a truck or its just too stressful because I pretty much screwe him over though not intending to-- hence wanting to explain.

now I have not actually told him I want to talk alone. I've just asked him if he wanted to do something. Reason being 1 I don't want to make him nervous " talk". 2 in case I'm nervous and draw a blank I dont want him thinking its a game. 3. I thought ding something casual would help break the ice.

Anygow in in but making much headway here and he's already seemed kind of freaked out so I couldn't bring myself to actually tell him is like to talk. It's possible if I just said that I might have better luck , but I kind of feel like I'm pushing it saying anything at all...

so so should I just leave him alone and write him a letter to explain myself , though it really won't be at all the same as doing it in person?

or should I actually tell him directly I'd like to talk and ask him to meet up , and if he is still unwavering I just forget about trying to explain anything at all?