Search Results: girls making the first move

What’s your opinion on girls making the first move?

I have never ever ever approached a guy before but I suddenly want to attempt because it takes them forever to approach me. For example. This guy I knew waited to the last possible minute of our senior year to ask me out...

Shybitty

Xper 4 Age: 28

Dating

Should I wait or move on?

So there's this girl I like. First time I saw her I thought she was gorgeous, but I also thought she was straight. : (. So I didn't approach, but we got together as friends and I found out how sweet, funny and smart she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Education & Career

Don't hate the player, hate the game!

My parents have had a hard life. My mother grew up in Northern China, though some may argue she had a nice rural up bringing, the house which she lived in was a little concrete block. Not toilets. No hot water. No...

Anonymous

(18-24)

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Relationships

What Makes a Relationship and How to Maintain the Spark?

The key to a healthy relationship is communication, respect and quality over quantity! Let me make it clear that I am not trained or qualified by the state to say any of this. This is from experience and personal...

LazarusTheRisen

Xper 5 Age: 35

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Relationships

On Why We Are Not Compatible

I just started a relationship (friendship?) with this guy that I like. Well, not exactly... we had our first conversation recently. Anyways, it's obvious that the guy likes me back but we're taking baby steps. We haven't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Girl's Behavior

What do you do when your partners best friend (female) hates you?

Someone I have never met is controlling my relationship. He told me when we first met he had a girl best friend and it didn't bother me, I’m not a jealous person. Besides he was honest and told me he had feelings for...

McMillanD

Xper 6 Age: 33

Dating

Would you want a girl to talk to you first?

Guys, Would you want a girl to talk to you first or would you want to be the one making the first move, as far as socialization goes? Let's say it's a girl you don't know at all but you have 1 mutual acquaintance. You...

musicloverr8

Xper 6 Age: 33

Guys, Would you want a girl to talk to you first or would you want to be the one making the first move, as far as socialization goes? Let's say it's a girl you don't know at all but

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Guy's Behavior

Guys: what’s your stance on a girl making the first move?

Iwant2kno

Guru Age: 35

Other

Does being shy make you boring/uninteresting?

I’m a pretty shy girl. People tell me that all the the time, but around family and the few friends I have I open up. They still consider me quiet and chill because I’ll chime in, make a few jokes, or laugh and add my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Honestly, what do you think of girls making the first move?

I want to directly flirt with a guy and am gathering the courage to do so. But I am afraid it'll make me look sleazy :/

Anonymous

(25-29)

I want to directly flirt with a guy and am gathering the courage to do so. But I am afraid it'll make me look sleazy :/

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Flirting

What do you think about the girl making the first move? Like texting first or just requesting or adding him on any social media platform?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is it wrong I'm talking to a guy my boyfriend hates?

So I moved in with my boyfriend recently and he has beef with this guy he used to work with. My boyfriend introduced me to him before and we ended up figuring out we both like similar things. I didn't think too much of it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

How do I deal with depression, loneliness, missing ex?

How do i deal with depression and loneliness from missing my ex? here's the story, we were together for 8 years and broke up 3 months ago. At first, I kept bizzy and remained positive, but I feel now that I was only...

mnyc914

Xper 4 Age: 37

Dating

Bad guys make moves and fake niceness! Good guys have patience!

Each nice, sweet decent guy I've dated, I had to make all the first moves. Both my long term boyfriends, I approached. They were very receptive and it went really well. Then somewhere down the line after breaking up with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Flirting

Is it bad to approach a guy first?

I know he likes me but he’s shy and I think he’s unsure if I like him so I’m thinking of just approaching him myself. Do guys think that’s desperate and get turned off by girls making the first move?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Valentine's Day

The Dance of Hearts, A Valentine's Special

Love Love is a beautiful thing. When it works, it is amazing and the energy flows. But all too often, it doesn't go as desired. No matter how painful relationships are, we keep going back to find love! We heal up our...

lightbulb27

Master Age: 59

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Break Up & Divorce

Do you think my ex will stop? She's been mocking and bothering me ever since the breakup even tho she dumped me?

So long story short I dated this girl 2 months (I personally think she's a narcissist) she dumped me for another guy (downgrade lol) and they've been dating longer than me and her have which is completely fine, she was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

What is this girls issue with me?

I am a girl. I met this other girl at my workplace about a year ago. I was very reluctant at first to call her my 'friend' because she basically bullied me. She pushed me into the wall, pushed me in my seat, and treated...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

What if the girl lies about her age and purposely goes after older guys, should he still be in trouble?

Well now I'm 19 but when I was 16, I used to lie about my age. I wasn't the innocent girl pressured into sex as some people want to think. Sometimes it was me selecting the places and making the moves. I always looked...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

How I combated shyness, improved my social skills and became proud of myself!

This is my story based on my life experiences. I am writing this article because I hope I can help encourage and inspire other shy people to change their life. When I was a young child... and then a teenager, I was...

bijinbijinbijin

Explorer Age: 36

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