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I don't understand the transgender community. I am aware that it will never go away. I won't tell a trans person that I don't believe them to their face. I understand everything but transgender; gay, lesbian, bi, etc.

I am a woman, and I am aware of that, but I do not base my identity on that fact. It is not what drives me through the day. I seldom think about the fact that I'm a woman. I'm a woman, but I don't see how my life would differ if I were a man. I don't know how people are fighting for equality between men and women, fighting for men and women to be the same in some capacity, and at the same time, think transgender is logical. What is such a change compared to the gender assigned at birth? If you are trans, please explain this to me. I would love to understand, but as of this point, I don't.

Lesbians and their tattoos... it seems like they go together almost like spaghetti and meatballs. It seems impossible to find a lesbian that either doesn't already have a lot of visible tattoos; or plans to get some if they aren't already tattooed. And whenever tattoos are mentioned in lesbian spaces the reaction to them is almost always super positive, rather than "eh not my thing" or just a neutral reaction. I either just don't say anything or go along with it to not be a party pooper or ruin other people's enjoyment of tattoos. Whenever I do run into the rare girl who doesn't have any tattoos or plans to get any... they're you guessed it, straight.

Today I literally just looked up "lady without tattoos" on Google to... well, look at some pretty ladies who have no tattoos... but ironically, almost all of the pictures shown were of ladies with tattoos... of the pictures that came up though I did find ONE woman with tattoos that I found VERY pretty... the long haired blonde woman in the blue tank top in the first picture. And not too far away from her picture was woman in the second picture, the one with shorter red hair in the black tank top who despite showing the same amount of skin as the blonde woman was heavily tattooed in the exact same places where the blonde woman had absolutely zero tattoos.

Comparing the two of them is literally like night and day to me. Though in general they're both very pretty ladies with gorgeous facial features and fantastic smiles; the blonde one turns me on A LOT, the red haired one does not AT ALL. And it's literally all in their tattoos for me. The blonde one is quite boldly/confidently displaying her arms/shoulders and some of her torso/cleavage as well, and you see absolutely ZERO tattoos. All you see is her silky smooth slightly tanned skin with no marks of any sort, which she likely takes very good care of. Meanwhile... the red haired one is literally covered ALL OVER in tattoos in the same spots the other woman has none.

My boyfriend and have been arguing non-stop because of a problem we didn't get through the first time we started dating. The first time we started he would say rude and insensitive things to me usually after hanging out with friends or going to a party. Usually at these he would drink or smoke weed a lot and turn verbally violent. Even after addressing it with him he brushed me off, until one time he stopped for a month and then continued his problem. Over the summer we broke up and stopped talking completely, but after the summer we were forced to spend time together which rekindled old feelings even though I was kinda moving on. Long story short we ended getting back together and he is showing old patterns. Last week, we got in a argument when he made a insensitive joke to my friend when she was talking about getting a girlfriend (he didn't know he was a lesbian.) He said something on the lines of "I guess men weren't good enough for you and I should keep you away from my girlfriend then". My friend looked super uncomfortable and decided to leave, after she left he said it was a joke and that she's to sensitive. Last reason I think I should break up with him is because after the argument about my friend he started bringing up trans people and about how people being gay was okay but being transgender was inhumane. After every argument he continues to say he loves me and he is so grateful to have me in his life. So should I break up with him?