Hi guys I was with my ex for 3 years. The first year was perfect, when I got pregnant he gradually changed.
He constantly accused me of cheating, I couldn't speak to any guys on social media, having to delete it in the end, he never gave me any space, complained when I had to work leaving him with our baby, isolated me from my friends and family.
He became very controlling but says he was only like that because he was cheated on in the past and knew how it felt.
I caught him online flirting with another girl on a video chat. He said they were old friends, that was all. He continued to be in contact with her using his friends social media and told me she was a lesbian. She had 3 kids, one being a baby and her name was single mum of 3. She was half naked in every one of her videos.
This was a huge red flag and I'd had enough of him constantly accusing me of things I know I wasn't doing so I contacted his ex to hear her side. She told me she caught him doing the same thing with multiple girls and he cheated on her, that's why they broke up. He has literally lied about every single thing to me so I had enough and left him. It's not been as hard as I thought. I'm loving my new freedom, I actually have a life now and having my friends and family back. What I'm really confused about is to why he's getting his friends to add me on social media (I've not accepted any of them) and curious to why he's so angry at me dropping our baby off. He pretends to look sad at other times. I don't speak to him at all for my own peace of mind. Just curious why he has constant mood swings when dropping our baby off. Its been a few months and I have moved on with my life, we don't speak so I know I haven't said or did anything to cause these outbursts etc. Can any men explain what that is, im thinking he's trying to get a reaction out of me? Apologies for the long post. Thank you in advance ❤️
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