Should I date a bisexual girl?

[Anonymous]

I started chatting to a girl who approached me first on a dating app, I'm 35 and she's 32

She told me she has only been in relationships with girls but 'dabbled in dudes' she told me she prefers girls and when I asked when her last relationship ended she said it ended 5 hours ago...

I told her she needs time to heal first, but she says she mentally checked out her lesbian relationship back in November but only just dumped the lass now.

She tells me she is open to dating guys and isn't looking for a rebound, her parents would praise me like a god as I am a guy, she lives with her parents and they are accepting of her lesbian ways

But my worry is, even if things went well for me and her in future, because she prefers girls, she would regret being with me as I don't share partners,

But she tried to convince me that's she's more straight now as girls in the lesbian scene are batsh! t crazy, not my words lol

I want to give her a shot but I don't wanna be messed about/ hurt, as I'm getting old and would like to find a wife to settle down with

[D_Bone_Steak]

Alright, my experience with bi girls... first of all, I think most of them are not even really bi. They were just doing it for social reasons. I'm a dude that is totally fine with the female side being with other females. It never equals that though. The other female is just a ploy to slide in her (the other girl's dude) dude into the picture. Cutting you out of the picture and turning you into a cuck.

She brings around a girl that also wants me... she'll make that girl disappear faster than all hell. She wants to fuck around but has no interest in me having "extra" fun as well.

And lastly, I've been in long-term relationships where they claim to be all about girls... but then after years and 100% being totally allowed to go for any girl they want... they'll only cheat on you with guys. The whole girl girl and you thing is just like a scam to get you more interested. Even when I would get that, it never lasted and my main girl would make the other girl disappear. These chicks will tell you things like it's alright to sleep with other girls and then they don't like it when you do.

I really do think it's all an act. They'll lick a girls pussy when you find the girl and bring her over, but they don't do any of that on their own. It also causes conflict and she'll find some random dude to bring into the picture for retaliation.

So my opinion is... give her a shot, but don't believe that bi shit unless there are legit girl cravings coming out of her. It's probably just an act or way to look. They think it's hip or cool, but their only real interest is Cocks.

Talking to my lesbian friend about it... I guess among lesbians they are highly aware of these fake bi chicks that claim to want women. They only want guys. They'll play the lesbian role in a time of need and then bounce to a man ASAP. Yeah, just like with a stright woman... don't listen to her words and pay more attention to her actions.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

If I were told by a possible partner that they preferred women and only got out of a relationship five hours ago, I wouldn't take it up. I'd tell them no. Should have ended her relationship with the other person back in November when she, "mentally checked out" and not bothered to mention the former. It's rude.

[kylee2437]

You should take it as a red flag that she is searching for a relationship 5 hours after hers just ended. Being bisexual is one thing and isn’t a red flag but a person making impulse decisions based on their heart being broken is a red flag

[SecretsofKB]

Gay woman here. I've dated a bisexual woman. That never really had an impact on our relationship. But this girl you're talking about is only out if a relationship for 5 hours? That's a massive red flag.

[WaterIsland]

Why not just take it slow? 5 hours is a huge red flag. Get to know each other better. Spend time together. It’s not a rush.

[Iron_Man]

That’s a waste of time sooner or later she will desire a female and will cheat on you

[slatyb]

Sure, why not? you'll figure out soon enough if it's going to work.

[Drumlin2001]

Have a fling if you like, but gut feel is it won't be anything serious

[Anemone978]

I wouldn't do it...