He sounds like he is kind of being disrespectful towards you and doesn't care about how he is making you feel. It sounds really thoughtless of him to not tell you about his account, but you openly tell him everything on yours. Good job making him mention you to the girl, the fact that you even need force him is just completely careless of him. When he knows what makes you upset, he needs to just respect the fact and stop doing it. He seems like he does a lot of things that upset you and is disrespectful of your feelings. I don't blame you for feeling upset. I hope he realizes how far you are getting pushed.
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well.. if he says he's doing it to just make friends then why don't you give that a chance? where is the trust in the relationship? sure there are girls who have intentions to date, thats expected, but if you know your boyfriend well you should know if he can stand by his word or not, seems like you can't trust him, which makes sense why he would get aggravated and call you a hypocrite.
Sounds like he's looking for more than friends.
In answer to your question, no. You are not being irrational.
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It's extremely hypocritical for you to want to find someone to fool around with but not trust him when he says he's just looking for friends. This is a relationship, not something where he'll just find more girls for your interest.
How do you know the girls who speak to you are strictly there for friendship and not looking to date you? It's no different when it's a guy. If you can talk to girls, who you are attracted to, and still be 100% platonic, I'm pretty sure he can too.If you met people on Tinder that you're just friends with, then why can't he do the same?
To be honest, I think that meeting people on Tinder for friendship is a pretty terrible idea, but shouldn't the same rules apply to both of you?well ur crossing a few lines adding people into ur sex life. u need to be honest and open so you both know what's going on. creeping around and make each other feel un comfortable is good.
To be honest you may have opened a door that you may regret. its hard enough for 2 in the bedroom.Yeah, your boyfriend uses Tinder to make buddies... Fuck buddies...
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