I went on tinder to look at our first messages, it’s about to be a year since we met and I thought it would be cool to see them. But I saw that he had recently updated his tinder profile... and when I ask him about it, he said that because all his friends are moving away (he is in the military so this is normal), he was using it to find new people to hang out with.. he has his location set to somewhere completely different and he admitted he had it set to a lot of different places, too, to find people to hang out w in places we might move to.
I said “you have to know what this looks like.” And he said that because he works nights, and he’s always talking to me, there would be “no time to cheat! No one cheats at 1 in the afternoon.”
I want to believe him. He has never been like this before. But it’s hard cause it just doesn’t sound right. I don’t want to break up but hell, I feel like I don’t have a choice. What’s your guys’ opinion on this one?
I said “you have to know what this looks like.” And he said that because he works nights, and he’s always talking to me, there would be “no time to cheat! No one cheats at 1 in the afternoon.”
I want to believe him. He has never been like this before. But it’s hard cause it just doesn’t sound right. I don’t want to break up but hell, I feel like I don’t have a choice. What’s your guys’ opinion on this one?
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Edit: we are long distance
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So In his bio it says a funny joke, then “Jesus first”, then how tall he is (which was there when I matched w him), and then his Snapchat..
He told me he has deleted the tinder app, Snapchat, Instagram, messenger app. All of it, cause he’s done w social media
He told me he has deleted the tinder app, Snapchat, Instagram, messenger app. All of it, cause he’s done w social media
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