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We had an agreement of total clarity - if anyone is uncomfortable - we say it. But I am a kind of person who needs time to think things through and consider if it's worth the fuss.

So I was thinking and being moody and snappy for a week and on Friday I've told him everything I didn't like. For example, how he always told me to "chill" and "relax", whenever I tried to express feelings like frustration or stress. He actually told me I'm quite forceful, intimidating and have anger issues, which I almost laughed at, because I had problems with self-validation and have been quite timid for the most of my life. I started to feel like my feelings are being considered unimportant and he didn't want to deal with it, so I've told him that and asked for support and understanding, things I thought to be natural in a relationship.
Afterwards he went out drinking with his pals, even though he doesn't like it, so I felt guilty for upsetting him.

The very next day I got into a situation where I had to go out in a heavy rain to do a favour and the person dumped me, so I had a sour mood and shared it with him, and guess what he said? "Calm down", "Look for positives". So I flipped my lid and told him that I asked him to stop with this generic shit, because that's not what I want, he said that he refuses to be negative and play part in my pity party, I said alright and that was it.

It was 10 days ago. We have an anniversary today and I dunno what to do really. Should I give him a chance and talk to him or just leave it as it is and just quietly change FB status to single to give a hint and avoid confrontation? 🤔 I'd like some insight and external opinion. Thanks in advance!

So I met this guy back in April and the two of us dated for almost three months. There weren’t any titles, but we texted each other every day, FaceTimed every night and hung out usually like once a week. This past Wednesday, I invited him over to my place to spend the night. During the day, however, he texted me and told me that he couldn’t come over. When I asked him why, he told me that his ex hit him up and that it made him feel “conflicted” and that he didn’t want to do that to me. He ended that message by saying he was sorry. I told him that it was cool and then he thanked me for being understanding. Well later that evening, I messaged him back and said “I’m just going to make this easy for you. I’m not really feeling this thing anymore so don’t even worry about it.” I didn’t like the idea of him choosing between me and his ex. I thought it was disrespectful for me. He read that message and didn’t reply. We haven’t talked since. He’s viewed both of my posts on my Snapchat story that I made and I saw that he posted on his story saying his week has been crazy. I miss having him in my life, though. I at the very least want to be friends. Do you think he misses me too? And do you think I should reach out to him?