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I had great relationship with my lover, she had a baby boy for me. I tried and worked hard to make her and our baby comfortable while i am getting ready to pay her bride price, but suddenly her family started mounting up pressure on me that they can't wait anymore, it is either now or never... It became much of a burden on me, i was disappointed with to see that my love who was supposed to stand by me and support took sides with her family members. That was how she left my place in this same controversy and went back to her family home where she was rejected when she took in pregnancy for me then.
Gradually she developed a hardened heart towards me while i was calling and making all attempts in my ability to convince her to come back to me but it was all to no avail. She continues to avoid me to the extent that she does not even allow me to see ma son, whenever i ask or seel to see him, she gives me one excuse or another. I feel her parents has had a lot of roles played in this whole scenario... Lately i spoke with her and she told me that she's in a serious relationship which will most definitely lead into marriage for her... I need help as in what to do?