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Search Results: closure
Contacting an ex for closure 7 months later?
So I met this girl through a couple friends and we dated for a couple months. She spent the night and I never heard from her again, other than a random text 3 weeks later with an explanation that really made no sense and...
red324
Guru Age: 37 Should I ask my ex if he left me for another girl?
I was in a relationship with this guy 3 years ago. I thought he left me for another girl and I was most devastated by the fact that I thought we had something real. He broke my heart so badly. But I stalked the other...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why does this guy ghost me? How can I contact him?
This guy ghosted me after he had told me to message him. Then he doesn't reply to my messages any longer. I want to clear out one huge misunderstanding and get closure. How do I contact him? My age isn't over 45 for...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Had the closure conversation with my ex and just wondering if there's anything I can do for us to be together in the future?
Met my ex last night. He said things are going well for him right now, he's working, going to the gym and his spare time is focused on his kids. Everything is to keep away from drugs. He still has a lot of debt to clear...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do you have any weird things that motivate you when you feel bad?
Sometimes when I have trouble in life I go to the page of the girl who my ex ghosted me for and watch the video of them on a date. I discovered the video by coincidence a while ago and it broke every last bit of my heart...
Anonymous
(25-29) My first heartbreak never healed and feels unfinished. He apologized this year and I accepted but I still feel heartless. What do I do?
This is the conversation that changed everything between me and my first love. This is the day he asked to fix what had been broken. I’m not blaming him for anything that happened before this conversation. I still loved...
MilaRay
Xper 7 Age: 28 I think my biggest heartbreak is slowly but surely changing me into a heartless person. What now?
This is the conversation that changed everything between me and my first love. This is the day he asked to fix what had been broken. I’m not blaming him for anything that happened before this conversation. I still loved...
MilaRay
Xper 7 Age: 28 In your opinion, why do friends ghost?
Ghosting: the practice of ending a relationship/friendship abruptly without communication or closure and with passive-aggressively ignoring communication from the other party.
ThoseCognacEyes
Xper 6 Age: 34 
Is it common for guys to talk about feelings on the second date?
Today I went on a second date. The first date was two weeks ago. Right as I was about to leave, the guy stops me and tells me that he wants to ask me something. He was saying that he felt comfortable with me, that...
Anonymous
(25-29) Can seeing your ex with someone new help bring you closure?
Hi guys. I saw my ex tonight after a long time. We didn’t end on very good terms, & he hurt me a lot. He basically ghosted me at the end & I was very much in love with him. I was so hurt, & I spent many months pining over...
Anonymous
(25-29) How should I respond to this?
So a guy I used to hook up with back in high school messaged me out of the blue. We used to be friends but I guess broke up when I moved when home. It didn't end well and he didn't take it well. Now 6 years later all of a...
Subarugirl
Yoda Age: 29 I catfished a guy when I was in highschool and he seems to not be over it?
Yes, I absolutely know this was wrong. I was a sophomore in high school, and I regret it. I catfished a guy, and I will say it lasted awhile. I truly felt bad about doing it but didn’t want to tell him. I finally...
Anonymous
(25-29) Replacing one year of a relationship?
Guys, I spoke to my ex after a month. I wanted closure so I can move on. He tells me he is talking to another woman and basically replaced us the same day he broke up with me. And possibly will ask for her hand at the...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I wish him a happy birthday?
I've broken up with him because he is manipulative and so toxic. he lied to me for months and i forgave but this time he did some shit again like saying he will kill himself if i left him bcs his life will be meaningless...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you believe that sometimes, not having closure is a closure?
I don't see the point why people need closure when all it will do is just prove you wrong and waste your time, knowing that you can do more important things.
certifiedalphafemale
Xper 6 Age: 28 Was she playing me all along?
There's a girl i was interested in, it has been 4 years since i've known her. I tried my luck thrice. On two occassions i never got a clear cut answer. She'd always find a way to change the topic. Then the third time she...
Mkxulu
Xper 5 Age: 29 Should I learn a few phrases in her native language before the first date?
I'm going on a first date with a girl next week on Saturday. She speaks English extremely well but it is not her first language. Her first language is French. Do you think it would be too cheesy to learn a few...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I send this letter to my ex?
I’ve been thinking about writing this closure letter to Devon. Should I send it? I feel wrong for leading him on and pushing him away. I don’t want to get back together, but I also feel like a jerk. Dear Devon, It...
Hannah_Ann_Linge
Xper 6 Age: 28 Deeply hurt after I came across a picture of girli knew which upset me?
was bored last night so looked through some pictures posted to instagram from my hometown and came across a shocker which deeply upset me. i had meet this girl earlier in the summer and we got along really well ,...
Anonymous
(36-45) My ex gave me his phone number after we meet up. Why did he did that?
After 6 years of our messy breakup, I decided to have some closure with my ex-bf. It was him that broke up /w me. I was toxic at the time and he always hid his feelings so it wasn't the best combo. I messaged him on...
Anonymous
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