Yes, I absolutely know this was wrong. I was a sophomore in high school, and I regret it.
I catfished a guy, and I will say it lasted awhile. I truly felt bad about doing it but didn’t want to tell him.
I finally decided one day to just block him and never look back.
Well years later he contacts me and asked if I was a catfish and what happened. I I told him the truth (the COMPLETE TRUTH). I told him I was a minor at the time, I was lonely, and how wrong it was and how sorry I am. He ended up forgiving me (said he wasn’t mad but confused) but asking me if we could get to know each other. I told him that … I was very sorry, but I wasn’t able to do that….
After the conversation ended I blocked him again. Well again, now so much time has past since then
And… he adds my Snapchat. I added him back saying “why did you add me, I apologized to you already?”
He says “I’m not mad at you, it sucked to find out but I feel like I know you.”
I told him I was grateful he wasn’t upset, but that I wasn’t sure how else to help him. I also asked if he needed more closure…
I feel shitty i did this, but it was years ago now.. I can’t change what I did. I owed up to it, and apologized. He seems to be very persistent in talking to me. Please don’t tell me how awful I was because I know… I just need help figuring out what to do.
Part of me feels as though I owe him at least my friendship
.
I catfished a guy, and I will say it lasted awhile. I truly felt bad about doing it but didn’t want to tell him.
I finally decided one day to just block him and never look back.
Well years later he contacts me and asked if I was a catfish and what happened. I I told him the truth (the COMPLETE TRUTH). I told him I was a minor at the time, I was lonely, and how wrong it was and how sorry I am. He ended up forgiving me (said he wasn’t mad but confused) but asking me if we could get to know each other. I told him that … I was very sorry, but I wasn’t able to do that….
After the conversation ended I blocked him again. Well again, now so much time has past since then
And… he adds my Snapchat. I added him back saying “why did you add me, I apologized to you already?”
He says “I’m not mad at you, it sucked to find out but I feel like I know you.”
I told him I was grateful he wasn’t upset, but that I wasn’t sure how else to help him. I also asked if he needed more closure…
I feel shitty i did this, but it was years ago now.. I can’t change what I did. I owed up to it, and apologized. He seems to be very persistent in talking to me. Please don’t tell me how awful I was because I know… I just need help figuring out what to do.
Part of me feels as though I owe him at least my friendship
.
