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- During the day, she ignores every message I send her and just replies with "hey haha".

- Whenever I tell a story, or make an opinion, Both on message an in real, she will say something like "Hilarious" in a sarcastic way to stop me talking. Or just flat out ignore what I say.

- I spent £800 to see her for 2 days whenever I can (usually every 2-4 weeks), she's never visited me and has never made plans too (almost a year now).

- A couple weeks ago, some other guy from far away she use to talk to re-added her on social media, since then she talks to him more then me, at night she will talk to him till she sleeps, ignore my calls to say night. And will say something the next morning like, "sorry I fell asleep".

- every single message I send her is long and loving, tons of hearts, cute names, etc etc. I get back bland basic short replies to everything. She uses a heart or an 'x' like a couple times a week at most

- only talks when she's bored. When we do talk she just constantly leaves the chat, (snapchat). She will send a message, leave for 5 minutes, come back, send another small message, and keep doing that until she ignores me for 4 hours until our next "chat".

- when were together in real life, she hates holding hands / never looks at me / sometimes has to 'leave the room first and I follow 30 seconds late

-if she calls me I put down whatever I'm doing to talk to her, I call her and I will get a very rude 'I'm busy, bye" and hang up, and won't hear from her for a few hours.

- if I ever bring up how she treats me like this, she just says she's busy and stressed. Always an excuse.

- when were together, she never looks at me, just constantly staring round the room.

- she's only ever comfortable with me when we're alone in person

- whenever I get sad over things like this she does, somehow it always ends up with me apologising.

- rarely have meaningful conversation.

what do you think? Is this unfair? Or is this just how women are?
thank you