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I know this is not everybody but in the media and in general, bad behavior/decisions are tolerated much more in women than in men.

If you go out and ask 100 random women in an average income neighborhood, a large majority will say that they don't even believe that they are underprivileged/disadvantaged/oppressed due to their gender, so I think it's ridiculous that society is creating this narrative of women being so helpless...

For example, if a woman becomes fat from eating too much, people say "Girl, you have nice curves and you're beautiful the way you are." If a man becomes fat, "You're fat. Go hit the gym." Even when in comes to something you can't change like height, guys don't say anything about women for the most part. Girls say, "You must be taller." "Short guys are the worst."

If a woman is broke from lack of effort, "There is a wage gap."
If a man is broke from lack of effort, "He's not worth dating. He's a loser."

If a woman cheats, "Girl, your happiness is the most important thing."
If a man cheats, "He's a scumbag!"

Now I don't know the exact crime numbers and laws and they vary from different areas but generally it goes something like this:
Women rapes a guy, she gets 5 years. Man rapes a girl, its 30 to 40 years.
Woman murders a man, she gets 10 years. Man murders a woman, he gets 50 years to life.

If a girl is rude, "You're being real. You're strong and independent."
If a guy is rude, "What an asshole!"

I started online dating recently and I see so many women wearing slutty clothes and having ass shots on their profile pics. I don't like that because it tells me that she doesn't have much to offer to the table beyond her looks, so I just swipe left. I've been accused of being weak, boring, and "can't handle an attractive independent woman." Of course, I care about looks, and I like big butts and big boobs like all other guys, but I also want someone that I can marry, have kids with, and die with me, and I don't think that women who use their looks really offer that.