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OK, me and my boyfriend are trying to sort some really big and serious issues. Basically he screwed up big times by being dishonest about his past with me for 95% of the time we have been seeing each other. We have been together for less than a year. We both have fallen for each other rather hard, and both wanted to stay together and have a future. What he was dishonest about is haunting me now and bringing up a lot of issues of my own which trig his other issues, it is getting very complicated and we both get disheartened after all those arguments that we have had. He has basically broke free from a long term abusive relationship with his ex (which I have just found about) they were broken up but he never moved out so he stayed at the house for few years whilst seeing me. Now that he has finally moved and I found out about all of this - he says he wants to start a new life with me and he is in a very nice house with lots of positivity around him, but I am stuck with my hurt feelings - I feel betrayed, and manipulated into all of this. This dark cloud has taken over the bright green and sunny picture of what we used to be like. I know he has real feelings for me and so do I. I suggested counselling and we are going ahead with doing it separate at this stage as we have to battle own issues from the past, which I truly believe I wouldn't have if it wasn't for this situation. So I am doing it for me but for us as well. I know he feels very guilty and doesn't like to be reminded about the past. He gets really annoyed and angry with me when I speak about this. He says he wants for this to work but at the same time he says other things like "If you are fed up with all of this please tell me", "If you don't want me any more please tell me". I am really in a limbo as my feelings have been really hurt and I am trying to repair this for any chances at all. I just don’t know what to do or expect anymore.