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Search Results: hate trying to date
Why did my ex unblock me on social media?
We broke up in January. We had dated for a year. So, my ex blocked me on ALL social media. Then a mutual friend of ours told him that I lost weight. And got skinny. (I was chubby when we dated). It all started...
Anonymous
(30-35) No, Virginia, there was never a mass campaign by Americans to use smallpox to commit genocide
This is a myth being spread around quite a bit right now. However, many are saying that the first settlers in America did this to wipe out the Indians. And that it was "the plan all along." I challenged another user on...
ObscuredBeyond
Guru Age: 43 Why do girls just straight up not like me?
Girls have zero interest in dating me. Yet on these dating apps I get swamped with gay guys dying to get with me. I don't even have my filters set on guys and they won't leave me alone. Yet the girls I try and match with...
TommyFranco
Xper 2 Age: 29 Should I keep my Normal relationship or own him? OR am I being insecure about his sudden disappearance?
I asked already, but to make sure I got it in the right category, I'll ask one more time. it's a long story I'll try to shorten. Quick summary: I entered an on and off slave and master relationship but not sure...
Wrrrryyyyy
Xper 4 Age: 25 Should I keep a normal relationship or own the guy? Or am I being insecure about his sudden disappearance?
This is a long story I'll try to shorten. Quick summary: I entered an on and off slave and master relationship but not sure if it's the right thing, or if I should force him back into it. Longer explanation: I...
Wrrrryyyyy
Xper 4 Age: 25 I turned this guy down last year but I want to try again?
We went on one date last year and it was an amazing date, he was great, but he came on a bit too strong and I guess I just didn't find him attractive enough... So I impulsively turned him down for a second date. I regret...
Anonymous
(36-45) Are You F***king Kidding Me?
Hi. I just joined this site tonight. I have a very rare disorder called hypergraphia. An overwhelming urge to write and or draw. It's caused by an abnormal interaction between the temporal and frontal lobes. The temporal...
Corey626
Xper 4 Age: 36 Help me out. I'm desperate?
so I dated this boy for 3 months. we were everyone's fav couple he was so sweet he bought me chocolate milk every day at school cause it's my fav drink. i broke up with him around a month ago cause it just wasn't right....
Anonymous
(45 Plus) How to Get a Girl: A Message to my Younger Self
I grew up almost solely among women; so I never had men teach me what to expect as it concerns dating from a male perspective: how to treat yourself, how to manage expectations, how to manage your responsibilities, etc. I...
elew4too
Explorer Age: 35 What’s Tiger Moms and How to Identify One
If you’re from Asia, you must be familiar with this. If not, be patient with me and I run you through it. Tiger moms are what we like to call a hot tempered, perfection seeking, and in some ways, toxic mom. Living my...
Emma_240302
Explorer Age: 24 Girls, Do attractive women have compassion for men they've rejected in the past?
Im 34, never had a girlfriend not by choice, poor social skills, no social circle, no friends, haven't been on a date or had sex in over 4 years. I have a long list of female rejection mostly from women I have stuff in...
smartman12
Xper 6 Age: 40 Why is being kind, a caring, person considered a bad thing in romance?
Every time i try to find romance and a relationship i keep getting told "i can't date you you're to kind/nice of a person", "you're way too nice, i don't want to ruin that"... it's gotten to the point I'm starting to...
dragoblack
Guru Age: 34 My take on Involuntary Celibacy
So this idea and term seems to have gone off in many different ways. But I am here to simply address the term in the way that I see it. But before I do that I feel the need to go over somethings first. Just so we can get...
Jjpayne
Editor Age: 42 Is she just being nice? Or trying to reach out?
Just to cut this super short- About a two years ago I was really close to someone. Intentions we're clear, multiple dates, etc. We had a huge fight in Jan 2019 and have not talked since. We just moved on. Cut to...
Anonymous
(36-45) Should I get back with him?
Okay so my first boyfriend cheated on me 3 years back ! And it was really really bad and it affected my 2 and 3rd relationship because I kept having trust issues ! And one thing I realized is.. it was because I didn’t...
Dechori1234
Xper 5 Age: 29 Was this a red flag or trauma reaction?
Currently in 1.5 months into dating: -he said he loved me on our 2nd date and asked me to be his girlfriend. i get that, that should’ve been flag #1 I just thought it was sweet, and I love you’s aren’t a big deal...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it normal for a guy to hate you and try to punish you for not wanting to date him at CHURCH?
There was a guy from old church who liked me - super nice Once I rejected him he hated my guts Would not let me join any of our mutual friends at social activities around the church so I ended up losing all our...
Did I screw up my dating life? Is it hopeless? What can I do?
I feel like I've really screwed up my life here. I'm 26 and just have no luck when it comes to dating. When I was younger, 18, I used to work and retail and there where lots of girls my age and some even liked...
Anonymous
(36-45) Girls, If there are women that are into sex, then why act as if disgusted about it and then result in calling the guy a perv, creep or rapist?
I had this experience where a girl told me in Tinder that she was looking for sex and not a relationship which confused me cause I thought girls hated sex. I would never mention that stuff to a girl as a friend, since it...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why are my "friends" excluding me and acting like its nothing?
so we have a sweethearts dance this Saturday, and one of my friends (friend A) and i have had a tradition to go to every dance so far in hs together. she decided she didn't want to go this year, bc she didn't want to see...
nopedydoo
Explorer Age: 22 