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So anyone who knows me, knows that I typically avoid drama like the plague. But this guy is trying is best to drag me into it with everything he has.

Context:

This guy on here has had a crush on me for quite some time. He knows perfectly well that it isn’t reciprocated and has mostly been respectful and kept it at bay. He seems like a decent enough guy, we see eye to eye on most issues and can hold a conversation without getting weird about it. So I followed him we shared some DMs, had some laughs, and talked about things we are both interested in. But we, kept things strictly platonic.

He recently tried to cross over that line by hijacking a post my some blue anon by calling me “love” to which I told him in no uncertain terms to not do.

And then writing a full page “explaining” to me why it’s okay to call me that despite the fact that I have already told him not to try and peruse anything romantic/sexual with me.

The reason I bring this all up, is because he recently posted the exact same screenshots in his on question, without giving the full context and asking if people thought I had overreacted. Despite the fact that at any point before making it weird he was perfectly free to send me a DM. Since the initial incident I have unfollowed him as he clearly don’t understand boundaries. And when I tried to engage him in conversation on his own question, rather than respond he just removed my answer. So yeah, if he can’t even talk to me like a mature adult, I will just block him. because like I said, I don’t like drama.

I stopped talking to a guy around 4 months ago. It was around Valentine’s Day and he asked me out the night before. I told him I’d get back to him, the night before we went for dinner. He had a little too much to drink & was bitter towards his ex. I asked a question (don’t remember) & he went into detail about why he’s single. He thinks women have it a lot easier, his ex did him dirty (he used to support her & he mentioned at one point she needed to get a job, she didn’t want to stop pole dancing). He was getting angry & I just ghosted him after that night. He sends me a text over a week after asking why I don’t message him, I said the phone works both ways. He asked to hang out again later on and I was like um no thanks.