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I want to clarify that when I say "feminine" and "masculine", I am referring to the behaviors society labels and associates with each. For example a "feminine" man would be someone that is more sensitive, expressive, sassy, etc.

The reason I am asking this question is because of two reasons. You don't need to read them to answer the question, but feel free to do so if you like:
1. I've been described as masculine by a lot of my friends. And it isn't because I dress differently or am a tomboy by any means, but because they claim I'm not as expressive, I don't use a lot of "feminine" gestures when I'm talking, I'm guarded, I am not the nurturing or domestic type, I'm a bit individualistic, I can sometimes put my career over other things, I don't know the right things to say to make a person feel better-- I'm more of a "fixer", I prefer to be in control and dominate, be the one to pay on dates, often have a hard time apologizing or telling someone how I really feel because of my pride, see vulnerability as a sign of weakness, etc.
2. Almost all the guys that are attracted to me (and vice versa) end up being more "feminine". The last guy I dated was overly sensitive. He would constantly need me to assure him that I cared about him. He was very expressive... hand gestures, sassy/fiesty, constantly wanted me to talk to him... all of it. When we argued, he was the one who would force me to talk it out and I was the one who would shut down. He got jealous very quickly and was very posessive. He would get very emotional and sentimental about small things, etc. He was the nurturing and domestic type. He said he preffered to cook and clean and wouldn't mind a woman who could bring in the money. He wasn't afraid to cry openly. Also, a lot of people used to tell me they thought he was gay simply because of these traits that society labels as feminine.

Is this just a coincidence or do others on here have similar experiences?

I'm a junior in high school now and ever since the 8th grade girls have always bullied me, refused to work with me in groups, and ignored me. I've only had a good 2 girl best friends and they all turned against me for some reason. When I try and make friends with other girls they refuse to talk to me or laugh at me.. My older sister is gay so that may be the problem because girls have questioned me about it and even asked if I believe in God or go to church... It seems like ever since my sister started dating girls when I was in the 8th and she was in the 10th things changed.
I've been friends with like 4 guys since the 8th and one of them since the 3rd grade. They've all witnessed me being bullied by all these girls and tell me just to ignore them or fight them (but I'm not gonna do that lol). Guys have no problem working with me in class. Onetime I was sitting by myself at lunch because I had no one to sit with and this guy came and started talking to me and asked me why I'm by myself.
I'm not ugly or fat or anything. People tell me I'm pretty even the girls that use to be friends with me and some of the ones that bully me now. I even get compliments from people I don't know outside of school. I don't dress bad or anything I dress similar to other girls at my school. I want to have a girl best friend but I can't seem to make one anymore..