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My friend group is big on us dating and marrying women that are our type. I am the only one in the group who doesn't really have a type. I'll date any race and skin color. It doesn't matter to me. My friends think I'm struggling to get into a long term relationship because I am "not focused" and "don't know my type". They'll sometimes corner me and hound me asking, "What's your type? What's your type?"

The longest relationship I've been in was for 2 years, but that was long-distance with a white girl I met online. My other 2 relationships have been short, like 2-3 months, and they were with lightskin black girls. So by their logic, I have 2 types, white and lightskin black. Whenever I go for a white girl, they think I'm copying another guy in the friend group because he likes white girls, but he wound up marrying a darkskin black woman. Then if I go for a lightskin black girl, they think she's ugly. If I go for a darkskin black girl, they say that I need to elevate my "level of blackness" to get with her. If I go for an Asian girl, they'll say Asian girls smell bad and throw out a racist Asian meme in our group text.

All of the other guys in the group are either in long-term relationships or married. 3 of them are married to darkskin black women, 1 of them is dating a darkskin black woman, and the other 1 is dating a lightskin black woman. I think these guys are just insecure. Clearly 1 didn't marry his type, I can't tell if he's happy or not. I think they just hate me for whatever reason.

Even the white girl I dated online said that her usual type is brown hair, white, tall, and conservative. I just saw on Facebook that she married a guy who matched her type 3 months ago. By looking through her profile, she seems happy and posts him or stories about him all the time.

Should I lock-in on my type which seems to be white and lightskin black? Or should I still date all races and ignore these guys? What has your experience been if you're married? Should type matter?

Of all the white guys I know obsessing over Asian girls, white women have been rejecting them for some time.

Many of them are visibly hurt, bitter, angry, frustrated and hot tempered.

The white guys I know obsessing over Asian girls don’t come off as masculine or confident or anything like that.

They just act so feminine in every conceivable way I can think of.

And better yet the white guys obsessing over Asian girls are usually these loner single guys in western white countries.

It absolutely baffles me how for thousands of years white men have mated with, protected and defended white women from other races of men and how we’re supposed to just suddenly abandon them now because we’re not manly enough.

We blame them for not being feminine enough but that isn’t the real problem.

So as much as western incel white guys complain about feminism, that isn’t the real problem since only a small minority of white women actually identify with hard ass misandry.

The lack of masculinity is far more pervasive in our society.

We have tons of single grown white men in their 30’s that send dick pics around to 13 year old girls.

It’s disgusting. I think its time for men to grow up and stop acting like children by blaming women for all our problems.

I used to blame women for all my problems as a teenager, yet I’ve noticed there are still tons of men that do this as grown adults and its pathetic.

Man up, improve your social skills, and actually make yourself desirable.

Stop fantasizing about Asian girls being so perfect that are on another continent a thousand miles away.

You see my argument is this.

Complaining about the rest of society being imperfect and feminism that barely exists doesn’t do a thing. We’re in no position to change other people.

Stop making excuses for yourself, and actually find ways that you can succeed regardless as a man.

So to all the white women out there, I love you and I support you. ❤️

Don’t let these bitter low class men discourage you.