Are men surprised that women born in Asian countries don’t shave down there?

[Anonymous]

I was born and raised in Singapore. I don’t shave down there, because I’m not living in the US so I don’t see a need to do so. I do take care of my underarms and shape my brows but that’s the only thing I do. Don’t be surprised that Asian women living in Asian countries only shave their underarms but not their legs or down there. I know there are indeed some Asian women who shave down there but that’s rare. If an Asian woman is born and raised in the US she’s more likely to do full body shaving. I had hairy legs and guys don’t seem to care I wasn’t surprised that many women and girls don’t shave their legs. I was crushed on by guys who were the same race as me even though they knew I don’t shave my legs. I think that’s just the culture here in Asia. The reason why I didn’t wanna go to New York was because I am afraid of getting shamed for not shaving my legs. I understand that every culture is different in every country, I don’t hate the Western culture but I do get scared living in the US because of guns and the shaving standards. Please respect our Asian culture when you’re visiting countries like Singapore, Thailand, Korea or Japan. Even though the women there don’t practice full body hair removal please understand and respect it even though you may not like it. It’s kinda unfair to force Asia to follow Western culture every culture is unique and they shouldn’t be the same. Some girls and women my age do wear skimpy clothing but majority were conservative in their dressing. Many women don’t show cleavage or wear backless outfits. We are just more conservative when it comes to dressing because we don’t wanna piss off our parents.

[Anonymous]

It's just a cultural difference, which most Americans are fine with because we have so many different races here. Also don't be scared of a country because the 'News" likes to sensationalize stories about shootings. The news is a business that has to make money so therefore they highlight stories like this to draw people's attention. Americans are actually nice people. We just all have guns because it's in our culture. "“When governments fear the people, there is liberty" -- said Thomas Jefferson.

[Asker]

I remembered watching a world news in my own country about school shootings and other gun incidents happening in the US which made me think that living there is risky.

[Asker]

When it comes to terrorist attacks in Europe and other countries it made me not want to stay in the crowds for too long. I loved Europe because they had nice attractions, sceneries, delicious food and nice people. My tour guide who was born and raised in Italy said that Italians are very impatient people and that French men don’t wash their hands after taking a piss.

[Opinion Owner]

Right, well there's 5 million people in Singapore. 330 million in America. So, the odds are 60 times greater here that someone is going to go psycho. But honestly, it's like a shark attack. I've been in the ocean hundreds of times and never encountered a shark. But, once a year, some kid gets bitten -- never happened to me, though. Just like, I never went to school as a child fearing that someone had a gun. It's a really unusual and freakish thing, and again, that's exactly why it makes the news.

[ZackBan]

Surprised? No.
But I do think saving down there is a choice and not something your society should dictate.
I personally keep myself nice and groomed down there even though I'm from the middle east and few if any do that here, what they do is their business I'm not a fan of hair be it on me or my SO. It's not a total deal breaker but definitely a clean pubic region motivates me to get creative in bed more.

[MelonSoda]

I mean, I don't see the issue with having hair or not down there. Do what makes you happy, girly. <3

[Anonymous]

This is the only time i agree that Asian=East Asian

[nawtee_me]

Shaving down there is a preference and if you do not want to do so that is okay too. I do not mind either way. As long as it is clean and taken care of that is all that matters.
How do you feel about a guy being shaved down there?

[Asker]

I’m not into guys shaving down there it’s because it will make him like a boy. Plus I’m not into giving blowjobs.

[nawtee_me]

are you into receiving oral?

[Asker]

No not into that too that’s why I don’t trim or shave down there.

[KostasKouvalis]

Honestly, I think you'll be fine. Americans are pretty tolerant and usually don't body shame, aside from immature kids and teenagers.
There are a lot of hairy girls in the U. S., but some potential boyfriends may find it off putting, yes. I don't know what kind of guy you're looking for.

Yeah, I'm also curious as to why Asian girls don't shave.

[KostasKouvalis]

I'm not surprised that they don't shave their pussies, but I'm surprised that they don't shave their legs, because they have a reputation for being extremely feminine.
I know a lot of Chineses don't shave their armpits, but I've only ever seen one Asian girl with hairy legs.

[Staximus]

I don't care if a woman shaves her vagina or not. If she washes it, I'm eating it. American guys aren't used to women with hairy legs, though. Over here it usually means she's a hippie or lesbian. Shaving your legs is not that difficult. Everybody used to expect men to shave their faces here. You couldn't go to work without shaving at many jobs when I was younger. Now it doesn't matter unless you are in the military or a police officer.

[EaterPeter]

I am surprised. I heard from someone about some other Asian country.

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like. I am sorry that you feel such pressure and feel that way in general. What do you think of trimming?

[Asker]

Nah not really into that. I preferred not to travel to the US for vacation or I will be shamed.

[EaterPeter]

You would not be shamed. You mostly cover your legs 🦵 right? And I bet you wear decent clothes. I know the fear is real though. We are prisoners of our worst beliefs.

[EaterPeter]

I would say America is most understanding and least judgmental country.

[EaterPeter]

And I tell you. I like hairy woman. 😋

[EaterPeter]

I have been in live in relationship with couple of Asian women by now.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I live in America wish I could find a girlfriend that doesn't shave down there very hard to find one around age 18-36 years old

[MCheetah]

No. It's gross and grody, but why would that surprise me? You can have whatever hygiene and grooming habits you want, but it doesn't mean anyone else has to accept them. I don't. But you have the right to be nasty, if you want to.

[Dchrls78104]

Maybe I ought to move to Singapore; there I might actually find a grown woman!

[Lottifan]

I’m not surprised at all. Personally it doesn’t bother me if a girl shaves down there or not.

[andy530]

No not surprised. But don’t exactly understand why not tbh

[Anonymous]

I’m an Asian guy but raised in US so I expect shaving lol maybe none is ok

[slatyb]

Not at all, and not all Western women do.

[Nopename]

she should at least shave her bikini area. feathers bother when licking

[888theGreat]

Confucius say hair eweywhere

[Anonymous]

No, not really.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, but surely you can't all Asian girls?

[Edward02]

That’s a shame

[Asker]

That’s just Asian culture

[Edward02]

Yes, shame culture lol

[Asker]

I think Caucasian men should marry Caucasian women so there won’t be any culture conflict. I personally think it’s a bad idea for men in the US or UK to marry an Asian woman in an Asian country because they were so used to the culture in Asia. They will be turned off by the Asian woman’s grooming habits. If they want to date an Asian woman don’t go to Asia, because in the US or UK, Asian women are more likely to shave everywhere.

[Edward02]

this is quite debatable, but generally speaking, different cultures cause troubled marriages in the future.

[Asker]

You don’t hate Asian culture right because of the shaving thing? I do see some Asian women marrying Caucasian men here but they’re more likely to trim or shave down there and they’re more likely to be westernised. I wouldn’t wanna date or marry a Caucasian man because I’m quite a conservative Asian and I’m not open to casual sex and will only have sex after marriage. I wouldn’t be surprised if Caucasian men are turned off if I tell them about how I groomed myself.

[Asker]

I personally think that Caucasian men are more suitable to marry Westernised Asian women compared to conservative Asian women.

[Edward02]

You are 100% right about having sex only after marriage

[Asker]

The reason why I’m scared of sex before marriage is because I might catch diseases and losing my virginity to the wrong guy.