To say I'm frustrated is an extreme understatement, every girl I've found who is into the same hobbies, is attractive to me, is an atheist, and is in my age group, and doesn't want kids, and doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, or do any other drugs, is outside the united states...
In many Asian and European countries, they are a dime a dozen, but here they just seem invisible on dating sites.
Don't say "move", or "have her move here", it's not reslistic, and the constant fear of deportation is too much.
Don't say "just live your life and stop looking", or "just let it happen" because "living my life" and not actively looking just isolates me and leads nowhere.
I'm an artist, a nerd, and a gamer who likes having a few close friends I hang out with daily, I'm not going to change any of that about myself, but I do need to add something I'm not doing to that list, I just don't know what.
Don't say "lower your standards", because it's like saying "if you need help figuring out how to build a pc, then my advice is don't build a pc".
So if your additude is "it's hard to do, or rare to find, so quit" then I'm not interested in your opinion on anything, let alone this.
Finding what I want is indeed hard, really really really fucking hard, and I still want it more than anything, and you're not going to change that with a debate, no matter what you say.
Can someone, anyone, PLEASE offer actual advice on how to get what I actually want? How do I increase my exposure to these kinds of women in the US?
In many Asian and European countries, they are a dime a dozen, but here they just seem invisible on dating sites.
Don't say "move", or "have her move here", it's not reslistic, and the constant fear of deportation is too much.
Don't say "just live your life and stop looking", or "just let it happen" because "living my life" and not actively looking just isolates me and leads nowhere.
I'm an artist, a nerd, and a gamer who likes having a few close friends I hang out with daily, I'm not going to change any of that about myself, but I do need to add something I'm not doing to that list, I just don't know what.
Don't say "lower your standards", because it's like saying "if you need help figuring out how to build a pc, then my advice is don't build a pc".
So if your additude is "it's hard to do, or rare to find, so quit" then I'm not interested in your opinion on anything, let alone this.
Finding what I want is indeed hard, really really really fucking hard, and I still want it more than anything, and you're not going to change that with a debate, no matter what you say.
Can someone, anyone, PLEASE offer actual advice on how to get what I actually want? How do I increase my exposure to these kinds of women in the US?
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So far every reply except one seems to have not bothered to read my entire post.
