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Can someone please help me? Should I leave my friends with benefits?

Context: We flirted for 2 work shifts and ended up in bed together after a drunk night out and now its been 2 months of friends with benefits.

- He takes me out for drinks, he pays & calls them dates
- We cuddle even on my period
- He tells me that he doesn't want me to leave when I'm with him so I end up spending another night
- He makes me breakfast, lunch and dinner if I'm there
- We kiss and hold hands in public
- Every time he looked at me in bed, he tried to kiss me and got all shy when I brought it up with him.
- He started smiling & when I asked him why he said it was because of how I looked up at him
- I tell him that
- When we showered together & I was on my period, he played "Bleeding" by Leona Lewis so cute! I just had to say it!

But
- When he took me to an amusement park where you apparently take your future wife, he said that I was only an option but he knew that he would have the most fun with me. I kinda subtly pushed him into taking me though.
- He didn't seem too happy about meeting up with me but I did get mad at him, in the beginning but became ridiculously cute.
- He has rejected me twice before
- He has huge commitment issues from being abused by his exes

This girl said it is NOT superficial too reject somebody just as a friend because they are ugly looking.

I disagree with what she said though. I think it is superficial too reject a person based on their looks.

I think this way because if you Google the definition of superficial it tells you the defintion of superficial is

"existing or occurring at or on the surface"

and basically what is on the surface of human beings is appearance and looks.

Ok so this girl started to like me at work. Let’s call her Emiley. It was about a month ago but the weird part is she never really said anything to me but assumed I was flirting? When she asked me out I said I wasn’t flirting and sorry if I gave you that impression and kinda felt bad. She is well liked amongst coworkers and one of them in particular asked me if I was gay because I rejected her and I said no I’m just not interested in a relationship I’m too busy. I then started to like her and was being extra friendly and helpful and it got slammed right back into my face. She was being a cold distant bitch. There was a tray of food that was going to one of my tables she saw the receipt and walked away from it and I said wow really and she’s like it’s your table. I’ve bent over backwards for her and all I get is the run around. What I find weird is how she found my twitter username and tweets it constantly (and I’ve never once responded to it) she tweeted it her little plan for revenge on a coworker with the hashtag success in 4 words. I screenshotted it, printed it out, gave her name to HR and left. I blocked all of her social media accounts too. Yesterday she was messaging coworkers about having to go to HR today and I played dumb like I have no clue what’s going on. She told another coworker I snitched on her. She also got fired today for her social media posts and just her overall personality towards this place (she constantly bashes the place out loud and whines about having to come here and only likes it because of the coworkers). But now I’m getting backlash for sticking my nose into something that I shouldn’t have. Coworkers don’t like me now because she got fired and they are blaming me. I also keep getting prank calls from various numbers and a hate account on Twitter was made towards me. She was posting some seriously immature disturbing petty revenge and I honestly don’t like her she has bad mouthed me in the past too. I want her to stop harassing me.