1) He should be pro life
I am pro-life, So it would be hard to see eye to eye with a man who believes the most precious creature to me is just a bunch of cells whom I can kill if I want to. I will love my child since the very first day I know there is a human being in me. I can’t stand if my husband won’t share the same opinion and feeling. I’m glad I’m a woman and I won’t have to witness how another woman kills my child. What will the pro-choice father feel for the unborn inside her woman? NOTHING. Don’t forget it’s just a bunch of cells or how else pro-choicers call a parasite. I also can’t trust a man who doesn’t have the same value I have for the HUMAN LIFE. I want my children to have a parent on my level.
2) He should be possessive
The man whom I view as dominant, masculine cares about being the one and only and doesn’t agree to take sloppy seconds.
I want a man who is possessive enough to value virginity or at least low body count in women. To me a man who doesn’t care about women’s sexual partners’ body count is the most undesirable man. To me he is a spiritually and emotionally castrated. I would be grossed out to let such a man touch me. I don’t hate such men but I feel 0 attraction for them. I find them as unattractive as women.
I can feel attraction only for the man I'll see my future with. Other men are just mammals to me. I wouldn't be able to even look at a another naked man, let alone touch him. Let alone....
Gross. I can't even type it.
I haven't even gone to a date with a man because to me first date and all the other dates are bliss and I don't want to ruin them by just meeting a man who is not the one for me.
Would it be rational if I didn’t care whether he values being my first and last man or not?
Why would I be okay with giving my virginity to the man who doesn’t care being my first man?
Or why would I save myself and devote all my life for the sake of being with the man who doesn’t appreciate being my first and last man. What’s the meaning of choosing a man as my husband who thinks I am equal to women with past relationships. Don’t get all that bitter. To anyone who loves their spouses finds them better than other people. We find our beloved ones better than other people. And I’m not a horrible person because I expect my husband to find my pure past superior to other women’s colorful past.Include a caption for your image…
A man who is okay with the idea of another man having indulged in sexual relationships with his partner really disgusts me probably due to the 'possessive' aspect that comes into play when another man was involved. I believe such men are unpleasant to me and "wrong" in not minding other men having had sex with their wives. While I am sure you will never be able to convince me that letting women explore sex with other man is a good thing, it would be nice to stop getting so irrationally angry. I’m glad there are man who don’t care about their women’s sexual history but I don’t want my man to be one of them. Yeah. I don’t want a white knight.
3) He shouldn’t have a promiscuous past
While I don’t want a virgin I also don’t want a man-slut. A hot man is desired by women. Not news. I don’t need him to bang many sluts for me to know that sluts want him. To me a man who REJECTS sluts is 10 times hotter than the man who scores sluts. I have very high standards when it comes to looks. I rarely find any man good looking. If I find you good looking then you’re the one who gets approached by women all the time.
And it takes more confidence to rejects sluts than to approach them. If you reject sluts then that’s because you know you are TOO GOOD for them.
4) He should be a Christian
Can an abstinent girl marry an atheist in the CHURCH? An atheist’s takes a wedding vow for GOD? Can an atheist be my SOULmate.? Someone who doesn’t even believe in SOULs
5) He should have high standards
I love when men are picky. If a man says “ all women are beautiful I will lose all my attraction for him. I would be proud if he has had very hot and smart ex-girlfriends. I don’t know why women are insecure about this. Isn’t it good that he finds you better than those hot girls?