I'm writing this MyTake to help and give tips to the young youth of women bewteen ages 15 and 21 of GAG for a brighter future for their relationship and how to find a good husband and not make the silly mistakes of older women of this current era or past eras.
If you're a young woman who will scoff at this advice and is stubborn and determined to ruin your life by being stupid and reckless then you might as well not waste your time to read this Mytake.
Promiscuity Will Ruin Your Life.
Study after study have shown the negative effects of promiscuity has on women such as STD's, depression, low self esteem, substance abuse along with other serious effects.
Promiscuity on the surface may seem outright fun and adventurous at least in its begining stages but afterwards yields shame and a sense of dirtiness.
You don't want to be the woman who is almost reaching her 30's with a history of letting multiple random men run through her body sexually or be a single mom with a broken home with no father around to love and care for you and help you raise your kid.
It's embrassing and not something to be admired or aspired to.
Bitter And Lonely.
Living a unprepared life with no vision and not having a real sense of direction will eventually leave you lonely and bitter once the party years are officially over and everyone takes a left turn at the stop light and you a right.
Don't goof off with your school studies or being stupid whoring around and scoffing at good advice because if so then one day life is going to land a unsuspecting haymaker right to side of your face and make you pay for your stupidity with tears and regret.
Enjoy Your Youth.
Obviously youth is very short so while you'll full of energy, free from children and have physical beauty I advice you to go out and party with your friends with joy and laughter and have a blast, but do so without being reckless and dirty conduct.
Get Married Young.
My generation of folks are getting married in their late 20's and early 30's which I think its a terrible idea.
Feminism and western media has sold and brainwashed many women that school and career are more important than a husband, children and family which isn't; as a result many women are still single in their late 20's and 30's with which passing day getting more difficult as they age.
What makes most women feel valuable and content is having a family to take of and love.
School and career have their place but it should not precede family life if that is what you eventually desire out of your life.
Lastly, there are good men out there, I would strongly advice you to go for the Godly Christian man who loves and respects God and submits under the authrority of Jesus Christ and the Bible, but if you do not desire a man like that then good luck.
Don't Be a A Pretty Moron.
If you're blessed enough to have won the genetic lottery please don't waste your physical beauty on a being a complete idiot.
A gorgeous woman has great value and greatly to be desired, but if she has rocks for brains then her beauty is worthless and a complete shameful waste.
Proverbs 11:22: As a ring of gold in a swine’s snout,
So is a lovely woman who lacks discretion.
Whordom Leads To Undesirable Desperate Men In The End.
To further expand on my first and second points above about promiscuity and loneliness, I'm going to tell you the fate on what type of man you will mostly likely have to settle with if you desire to have a man after sowing your wild oats in your youth.
It will be a dude who is in his late 30's or 40 plus who has a belly that looks like he is carrying triplets inside his stomach, is lazy, not smart, mostly drinks a lot, doesn't really love nor respect himself much less you but is desperate to have a woman in his life with whatever baggage she has just so he can't quit watching porn to get off.
In other words he is a bottom of the barrel reject that no woman desired in his younger years for whatever reason much less now that he is older with less energy, and probably suffering from E.D.
This kind of man is the type of can goods or tasteless box of crackers at a grocery store you see all alone on the shelf during last minute preparation for a storm because no one wanted to buy it but the desperate last minute shoppers have no choice but to buy it in order to have something to eat when the storm comes and knocks out all the electric power.
I learned the hard way that life has consequences wheather the reward be good or bad.
There's no escaping your life's choices, you will pay and reap for the decisions you make today one day for certain.
I just hope you young ladies make the right choices and don't look back at your life 10 years later with "I wish, could've, should've" thinking with regret and anger like so many women are living today being all alone or in miserabe marriages or relationship with a lame.
He who sows iniquity will reap sorrow,
And the rod of his anger will fail.
Proverbs 19:3: The foolishness of a man twists his way,
And his heart frets against the Lord.
Wisdom calls aloud outside;
She raises her voice in the open squares.
She cries out in the chief concourses,
At the openings of the gates in the city
She speaks her words:
“How long, you simple ones, will you love simplicity?
For scorners delight in their scorning,
And fools hate knowledge.
Turn at my rebuke;
Surely I will pour out my spirit on you;
I will make my words known to you.
Because I have called and you refused,
I have stretched out my hand and no one regarded, Because you disdained all my counsel, And would have none of my rebuke,
I also will laugh at your calamity;
I will mock when your terror comes,
When your terror comes like a storm,
And your destruction comes like a whirlwind,
When distress and anguish come upon you.
“Then they will call on me, but I will not answer; They will seek me diligently, but they will not find me.
Because they hated knowledge
And did not choose the fear of the Lord,
They would have none of my counsel
And despised my every rebuke.
Therefore they shall eat the fruit of their own way, And be filled to the full with their own fancies.
For the turning away of the simple will slay them, And the complacency of fools will destroy them;
But whoever listens to me will dwell safely,
And will be secure, without fear of evil.”