Search Results: can a guy ever change

I’ve met a guy who ticks every single box, he has two children already... the one huge downfall, he doesn’t want any more and I do?

I’ve met a guy recently and the way we met was like fate. He was a total stranger when I bumped into him and somehow we got talking and it turns out our families were really close and his grandparents were the ones who...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Home Chats

"Girls Don't Know What They Want [in Relationships]": The Real Reasons Behind This Male-Created Myth

This is the first in a series of articles I'll be writing debunking some commonly-held myths about dating, society and life. Myths are beliefs - widely-held but false and erroneous conclusions. They make sense, they're...

AmandaYVR

Editor Age: 53

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Relationships

Do you think this is strange behaviour from a guy?

I added this guy on social media because we had a few mutual friends. He was very intense with me from the start, and sent me a message straight away, asking if I'd be interested in coming up to visit him, and saying that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Is this strange behaviour?

So I added this guy on social media because we had a few mutual friends. He was very intense with me from the start, and sent me a message straight away, asking if I'd be interested in coming up to visit him, and saying...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Do players ever change? Can they?

Say a guy who was a womanizer when he was younger & broke many hearts/only looking to fool around. As they grow older do they regret & change or they never let gonna of their mindset?

Nazgol

Yoda Age: 35

Dating

Is this strange behaviour, or am I overthinking it?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Is this bizarre behaviour, or am I overthinking it?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why would he be so forward with me, and then go completley cold?

So I added this guy on social media because we had a few mutual friends. He sent me a message straight away, asking if I'd be interested in coming up to visit him, and saying that we should connect via a face time call...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why would he be so forward and keen to talk to me, and then just completely go cold on me?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Would you ever be honest with someone if there was one physical change they could make that would make them look a ton better?

Do you ever wonder if there's something about you that looks bad and could obviously be improved, and no one will tell you? I've been dating the most wonderful man on the planet. I'm pretty sure I'm going to marry...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Why are guys at work telling ne to gain weight?

I dont ask for their thoughts on my looks. I hardly think any woman would go out her way to ask for mens thoughts on her looks unless she knew they are trusted guys who would uplift her. These jerks at my job keep...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

I reached out to my ex

After realising that my life would soon change completely, I reached out to my therapist and my ex, mainly because those were the most important people in my life at one point. Why my ex? I had high expectations with my...

tallandsweet

Editor Age: 24

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Girl's Behavior

Do girls ever mistakenly came down in a bra in front of guys they like and continue to let you see them because they think you’re not in the house?

Odd story, I met her June 2020(name is Sydney) and her first words to me were” You’re so pretty” with a big smile showing her teeth and kept the smile for a long time. I saw her months later in January doing computer work...

Justin1X7

Xper 3 Age: 30

Relationships

He told me to “get out of his life forever”. I am losing my mind will he ever change him mind?

i was dating this guy for 2 months... he said i’m crazy and bother him way too much. he said i’m sexy but that’s not enough for him to deal with me. he found someone else and yesterday i was kinda going off on him... told...

allthesttars_

Xper 3 Age: 25

Sports

Is ESPORTS a Sport? Introduction

How this mytake happened Esports is a special interest of mine. Let's just say it brings me a lot of joy and I spend way too much time on it. I'm not even good at gaming but I love watching the best of the best play...

Lynx122

Master Age: 36

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Society & Politics

Home Chats

My "Life Isn't Fair" Journal Entry/Rant

I just woke up. I had a bad dream. A realistic one. I have so many thoughts racing through my head right now, all jumbled and chaotic like a tornado. I was thinking about why I was unhappy with myself. Why I despise...

MCheetah

Editor Age: 39

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Relationships

New boyfriend is confusing me?

I recently ended a 2 year relationship last year. I've been enjoying being single for 7 months almost. I told myself I wouldn't date again for a long time maybe even years. For these past few months I've had hookups and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

HER: ". . . but you're a great guy and we can stay friends." HIM: "Bite me!"

One of the long-standing debates on this site concerns whether you should try to maintain a friendship with an ex after a breakup. The PC approved answer, if you are into regurgitating answers, is "of course you should....

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

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Break Up & Divorce

Do I need therapy?

Let's be real. This is something I might laugh at myself over. Due to the fact that I tried to date a narcissist. Just for 2 months... and I sit back sometimes, asking if I need therapy. People tend to throw narcissist...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

What did he mean by “If we ever run into each other in the future, maybe we could try again” when we don’t live close to each other? How would we?

So I ended things with a guy because of a wrong timing kind of situation. As we were finishing up talking he was saying how much he enjoyed the time we spent together and his voice kinda cracked and he’s like “ if we ever...

Anonymous

(30-35)