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I have a boyfriend for a month now but I am not sure if he loves me. We met really intense and that we had sex but he committed to me as his girlfriend. Throughout our relationship these are the positive and negatives things I have observed

Positive
- He hugs me after sex very close to his chest
- We shower together and our kiss has really meaning
- He is not afraid to show his vulnerability and lose of money
- He shared his dreams to me and plans in life , but mostly it’s him
- Whenever we go out , he always drop me at home safe. He always make sure I go home safe
- He talks to me everyday
- He loves cuddling and kissing me

Negative
- Because we are very far , he is pressuring me to go in his house and I I can’t he gets really mad and threatening me that he will look for other girls
- I saw him chatting many girls and even talking with his ex girlfriends and liking their picture
- I read a chat that he wants his ex girlfriends back
- He is pressuring me to co-sign a loan for him but promise to pay monthly
- He sometimes don’t listen to my stories and it seems like I have to listen to his always
- I paid every date that we had because he is broke
- He just introduces me to his friend as “Girl”
- He never ask how was my day and it’s always his that I needed to help him always with his problems

For a little background:

I was raised in a religious Asian family. I have 3 siblings total, the sibling I'll be talking about is my eldest brother. Growing up we were completely the opposite to each other. He was very family oriented and extremely gifted academically whilst I was a bit of a rebel and didn't care too much about school. I fell in love with an atheist white man and when my family found out, they were extremely unsupportive to say the least. I didn't care and at the age of 18 I dropped out of school and married him. After I had my first child, I realized I wanted my family in my children's lives. I organized a baby shower and invited them all, only my eldest brother came. He was very active in my son's life, at times more so than his own father and when my daughter was born he was very active in her life too. By then he had accumulated a lot of wealth through various means so could afford to spoil them by buying them gifts and taking them to Disneyworld etc. He doesn't want any kids so treats mine like his own. About a year ago I got a divorce from my children's father and since have been struggling even more financially than before the divorce (my ex was a deadbeat). None of my friends are willing to loan me anymore money as I am already indebted to them and I have no way to turn. Although my brother loves my kids, he still resents and hates that I ruined our family's reputation by marrying a white atheist so I know that if I asked him for help financially, he more than likely would refuse.

Would I be wrong in withholding my children from seeing him if he refuses to help me?