This old friend from high school wants me to lend her $40 for her phone bill. How can I tell her where to get off?

[smahala1991]

This woman I went to school with has asked me for money in the past. I helped her one time now she kinda sees me as this sugar daddy kinda person. Hell, I'm not even rich. She has a job and 2 kids, and a very unsuccessful marriage where her ex stole her car then he broke the back windows out. She recently bought a newer model Nissan car. Why is she asking me for $40? I mean I'm not trying to be mean I just wish she'd stop asking me to help her out so much.

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Plus she's wanting to be a cam model and in a MLM scheme. So I guess she's probably used to it by now

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I dont want to be mean but I can't help out not do i want to all the time. Plus I dislike only being talked to when someone wants something.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes that is big risk. Once you start helping someone out
than they repeat the same behavior of wanting to borrow
money my advise is tell her that your broke and let it be
at that she has more than one guy on the string whose
helping her out and i hate say it but she's ripping them
guys off.

[smahala1991]

She's wanting to model and cam model. Right now she's also in some MLM scheme for it works

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@smahala1991 Yeah you wanna be careful with cam model / modeling just never know.

[smahala1991]

Plus she got her kid a pair of air Jordan's which are expensive shoes

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Oh wow that is something else

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thank You For MHO :)

[Jjpayne]

I am not good with this... I just gave my brother 100 dollars.. I hope that he gives it back.. supposedly it will come back to me on Tuesday... fingers crossed..

[Jjpayne]

He did come through and gave it to me today but you should be careful with people like that, you have to use discernment and make sure that it will help them and not just plug a hole that will leak again and end up asking for more money :(

[EclipseoftheHeart]

She bought a new car and can't pay her bills? She can't seem to manage her money very well. Does she ever pay you back? I mean if she paid you back that might be different than if she didn't and used you as her private loan office. Just tell her you had to pay taxes this year so you have no extra money.

[RussianNestingDoll]

Tell her your last $40.00 went to her mom😆 That usually offends people and sticks with them more effectively.

[PrincessGrail]

Tell her to go away. Some people are really annoying.

[PrincessGrail]

Agreed

[SirRexington]

Just be like, " I need 40 dollars too and i can't give it to you, also it's not my responsibility to".

[koalita_]

Say: Sorry but I really don't feel comfortable with that

[TacosRAwesome]

Tell her you have enough problems and not interested in hers

[Pejtu]

I would say this

give me a blowjob for whole week and i give u 40$ deal

[codycccccccccc]

Get a 5 gallon bucket fill if full of razor wire and salt and then tell her it's at bottom of the bucket but you can't tip it over

[BBubbles]

Tell her you would, but you need it for your phone bill.

[beebella]

Just tell her to fuck off.

[Whatthefluff]

I dont blame you for your uneasiness.