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boyfriend and I have been together 8 years. It was a rough early shift at work and I had to stay later than normal. Got back to his house in the afternoon and began watching tv with him. Not long after, I started falling asleep sitting up. I asked if I can stay until the morning (I’ve slept over many times) so I don’t fall asleep at the wheel. He gets angry, starts lashing out at me and thinks I’m being an asshole for trying to stay. He says I’m doing it on purpose, but I’m not. I have Addison’s disease and get so tired to the point I’ll pass out sitting up. He even sees me falling asleep and still thinks this. I’m upset because I feel he has no empathy and isn’t concerned about my safety. The last time he wanted me to drive home while this tired, I started falling asleep and it really scared me and I don’t want to do it again. It’s not safe for me or others.

Would you make your SO drive home when they had been falling asleep? Am I really the asshole for trying to stay? Thanks in advance.

My boyfriend started working late nights with a mortuary company. He started pretending he had calls to get done. I believed he was cheating so it got bad and we went our own way. I went to get my car back and caught him red handed with another girl in the car. That night I pulled up he offered me money to go home but I noticed a shadow in the drive way and I managed to run up to the car and found a girl with 2 kids. I didn’t fight her. I took her with me bc she didn’t have a way of getting home and had kids and he also got away in my other car ( I’m dumb af) later that night he broke into my room and was sleeping on my bed. I went through his phone and he had another girl he was actually having a sexual relationship with. I confronted him and exposed him on his IG page. His guy friends congratulated him for his actions, at the end of the day a lot of girl thanked me. I decided to get back with him and forgive him. When he finally took me to his new place he was renting I noticed pictures of a girl who looked familiar , second time around I recognized who it was. It’s his ex from years ago. I was mad but at the same time he brings me over and sometimes I cook there. I don’t know how to feel about it. She’s not always around but when she is she offers him food her mom cooked or she whines and wants to talk about how she got hurt that day , he doesn’t say much just gets back to his room. I just wonder if he had conversations with her before I came around and even ate with her. He’s friendly and doesn’t say no when someone offers him food/conversations. It only makes me wonder what else he’ll accept. I forgot to say the first night I slept over the ex came back & just opened his room door.. she saw me laying down. Since then she keeps her distant but wtf? I’m obviously in love with this guy and tolerate his bs. I’m 23 and he’s 30 He like to act like he doesn’t need me but at the same time he knows he has advantage bc my cars are under his name. I was 19 b4.