Relationships

Are these red flags?

a few moments that had me look at him differently ….. my current boyfriend

-we were a few dates in and every time, I went to the bathroom he would go through my phone. We were not even in a relationship yet. And I only found out cause my friend caught him + he left an app open that I didn’t have open.

-My cousin invited me to a nice summer day outing with her husband. My boyfriend made such a big deal about it and told me that’s awkward if I go. (He was working that day) anyways, He told my cousin that I did something so horrible and that’s why I couldn’t go….(it was cause I didn’t go to the gym with him LOL) wtf

-My boyfriends mom and I had a lovely shopping date together and then she invited me to her house for dinner! It was so cute. My boyfriend knew… but the dinner part was a spur of the moment thing and it’s not my first time going there. Anyways, I only told him once I got there that his mom invited me over and then I’ll be going home. He literally rushed over to his moms house and went on a whole rant to his mom that he finds it so weird that he didn’t get invited. like he was genuinely upset. That was weird for me

-Showing up at my house always unannounced like he’s gonna catch me doing something. which is never the case but sometimes I’d just prefer a heads up so I can freshen up cause I look crazy when I’m in study mode or working.

-every time I mention im going out, it’s literally an ordeal. He’s in an annoyed mood. He’s asking a million and one questions. I don’t mind to give details and let him know my plans, that’s completely fine but it just comes off very fatherly like I have to report back to him and make sure I’m home at a decent time or something. And sometimes I don’t include him cause I’m hanging out with my girlfriends but he’ll always ask me if he’s invited. If he was invited or if I wanted him to join, I’d literally ask…..

I don't know I just find these behaviours weird. Let me know your thoughts please!
Are these red flags?
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