Are these red flags?

Anonymous
Dating someone and I'm not ready for sex ( I'm a virgin older in my 30's - he knows this. However still want to wait for the right time/maybe marriage ( strict religious upbringing that I can't quite shake off) He was also raised in the same faith so understands why this is an issue for me... We have only recently got into a relationship, he is very experienced in sex having had probably 100+ women, mostly booty calls and one night stands. He wants me to start doing sexual things ( not intercourse) with him but I'm not ready - he told me if I liked him I would do it, he also won't change his social media relationship status to in a relationship as he doesn't want people knowing his personal life (he has is set to single though) Although he does want to introduce me to his friends at his Birthday party soon. He also can go quiet and not speak to me much if I don't do something he wants/isn't happy with but will start talking again a little while after. Are these red flags? or just what dealing with another human being in a relationship like?

He does have a really nice side too him aswell and this makes me like him a lot. Some of my friends say to run however, I concentrate on his good sides
Are these red flags?
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