Are these red flags?

[Adele_26]

I’ve hooked up with this guy 3 times now, and I can’t tell if he’s a complete asshole or I’m being sensitive lmao. We both have high ADHD; he’s very outspoken and energetic while I’m more reserved and sensitive. He’s done some things that I can’t tell if they’re red flags or not. This happened last night and a good thing to keep in mind (I think?) is we we’re both drunk.

1. He said gaslighting isn’t real. He said it’s more so just misunderstanding.
2. When I told him I was leaving bc it was so late and I had work in the morning, he kept making silly excuses to get me to stay longer. That was cute. BUT- His last resort was to “go for round 3”. After I said no multiple times, he kept trying to persuade me. He proceeded to tell me that when I got home I’d wish I’d stayed and threatened to ignore me the next time I texted him.

To me, the second example is a sign of insecurity. I don't know about the first one lol. I only mentioned the ADHD bc it does have a huge impact on emotional regulation.

[Anonymous]

The second part sounds like a major red flag. Seems like he’s being manipulative and coercing you to stay with him by threatening to ignore you, pretty childish behavior tbh.

[Baylayy]

The second one is really toxic and dangerous. It's better not to be around him any more

[Anonymous]

Yes they are. So follow your gut instinct.

[In_Trance]

you've railed him multiple times and now you ask?

[Adele_26]

I don't know man he seemed to be putting on a front lol. I wanted to ask bc I tend to overthink a lot.