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This guy I had had a crush on since middle school finally asked me out freshman year of high school. We flirted all the time but it took him so long because he was in a relationship until 8th grade but he still flirted and wanted to be around me all the time. When we finally got together I would feel butterflies all the time. He would call me all the time but I never answered because I was too nervous but in person I could talk forever. Unfortunately I found out that he was taking to other girls so I broke it off but he still tried to call and get me to talk to him but I ignored because I was sad. But that was freshman year, I am recently graduated and over the years he always stared at me from across rooms and I felt he loved me too but he eventually he got back with the girl he was with in middle school. And I was hurt until he came into my job that his friend worked with me. And he was visiting his friend when the friend came back he asked me if u still liked the boy at the time his girlfriend worked with me so I said no in fear of being set up. But he kept asking and he said I can tell you something good he f I said yes but I was scared. Now I have a new job that I work with him and he is always staring at me and trying to start a conversation with me. I do want him but at the same time I’m tired of wanting the same old thing. I want to try something new but it just feels like I’m destined to be with him. But I don’t want to be that other woman I want to be the only one. We have graduated and now our schools are right across the street from each other. However I am still wanting to see more people before I settle I don’t know why or if I should let go help!!

I used to “TALK” To this guy On and off for over 2 years (C) I’ve dated in between as well, I used to vent to him about the break up, we were friends but also flirted and such. anyways, he’s ALWAYS wanted to be official, talked about having a kid, taking care of me someday etc. I didn’t want it at the time for multiple reasons, we ended up stop talking for something, but kinda got to talking again every now and again we have social media’s & he’d always watch my stories ( always the first one to see) well a few months ago I got a boyfriend , and I post him and things we do and I’m always talking about him. (C) tells me “I give you guys 2 years till it’s over” . Everytime we talk he mentions how I was such a “b” to him & disrespectful and rude. like if I was this bad why he wanted to be with me? I’ve asked him before & he’d always say “that’s how love works sometimes “. I know if I wanted him he’d be ready to be with me. He’s always throwing things in my face and saying how petty I WAS. And if I did before, it’s the PAST. He says if I changed then “congrats , but I’m not his headache anymore” . it’s almost like he wants me to be toxic to my boyfriend because I was to HIM once upon a time. Or he wants to put it in my head like I’m some horrible person so that I doubt myself. I just like to be on good terms but he’s always being negative bringing up things I’ve done, or trying to make me feel bad. sometimes we talk & he’ll say things like “how come you do these things with him & didn’t want these things with me” or he says things like” were you ever bored of me” . he’s told me he still loved me before , but yesterday he told me that he cares about a few people, and cares about me but if he seen me get hit by a bus he wouldn’t be phased he’d just keep it moving. Like wtf? Who says that. by the way My boyfriend doesn’t mind because he knows he can trust me & I’d never do anything to hurt him. my question is why does he try to make me seem like such a HORRIBLE person?