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We are in a long distance relationship with someone living in NZ and is from my home country only. It's been a month now. And he asked me what my goals are and I said I'm not sure but want to do mba in my home country and work here where as he is in NZ and is calling me there. He said me I should take loan to pay for fees of NZ masters and come there and stay with him and do masters in NZ and that I shouldn't worry about job thingy. So bdw, I'm an introvert and have less friends and he was like name three friends and I just have one best friend to be honest and he asked me why I don't have friends. I am very reserved and he has problem with me not having friends stating how will I grow despite having a good job and that I won't be able to survive in corporate world. He said me thrice that in home country, you're paid less and abroad you're not and that I should come to NZ. He asked me why i, 23 year old girl not getting promoted and i said that it's p been a year and a half. He is 24 and asked me why no wfh for me and I said the reason that I don't have access to those softwares at home and will resume office after lockdown gets over coz here still everything is shut. He said that he'll leave me if he gets someone like him. I asked him why not leave me right away and he said that he doesn't have anyone rn. He don't have time to find one. He wouldn't leave me because he loves me. Such contradictory statements. He suddenly talked about pre-nup that he'll make me sign before marriage stating I won't get a single penny after divorce that made me wonder why he talked to me like that. He aslo mentioned about the break up part and asked me if I want to break up and I said that if you have problem with me, you should break up and make decision right away. Then he says he doesn't wanna break up. I totally don't understand what to do. Should I break up?

My boyfriend and I have had our ups and downs so I could just be paranoid. But I do want to also shed light on the fact that this girl that I am about to discuss has been a huge playing factor in things that led to my paranoia. We have been together for 2 and a half years. The first year and a half was terrible. We faught constantly because of finances and it led to a lot of things before we finally were able to grow up and talk to each other like adults. We would split up and every time we did, he would go and hang out with this girl Jordan. Now, they had been friends for years so originally it didn't bother me. Not until he would tell me that she was always grabbing his ass, asking if he wanted to see her nipple piercings, bribing him with money to go hang out, running her mouth about him "playing daddy" to my kids and lastly, she started texting me saying some ignorant things. She was doing this all while claiming she didn't want my boyfriend and that he was just a friend. Last year we moved an hour and a half away from our hometown to start over. We vowed to not tell anyone where we were except his brother and our parents. 4 months ago my boyfriends brother was here saying that Jordan was asking where my boyfriend was living and what his phone number was. He didn't tell her anything and we went about life as if it was never brought up to us. However, our lease runs out next month and my boyfriend's brother posted on FB asking for tips on rents for us. Jordan commented on it and said "Isnt he living in Portland? I know of some rents." So I told my boyfriend and asked how she would know where we were and he shrugged and said "Guess we need to move out of state." His casual, unphased behavior normally wouldn't bother me except back when this girl was looking for his number or anytime before this, he would freak out and start yelling about how he was fed up with this girl being "obsessed" with him and that under no circumstances did he want her knowing where he was.