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Title kinda explains it all. I just noticed that when I dress normal (usually jeans, a T-shirt, and a hat) people either treat me
like shit or generally just ignore me. I don't get good service at fast food places
and cashiers often have attitude with me.
But today I wore a suit and tie👔 to work
for my training and I felt like a different
man.

I went to Walmart to the deli counter before work to get my mom some lunch and the lady basically stacked my plate and gave me a discount just because of the way I was dressed, this woman usually just throws your food to you and doesn't even acknowledge you.

It was so strange that get this... You ready? ... I got a girls number 😑... A grown damn woman's number! I got home and did some snooping (what everybody does..🙄) and found out this woman could be twice my age... And she had a boyfriend from the looks of her page too (very scary actually)

So yeah I was just shocked. Is society really that shallow that they judge someone based on looks. Has this ever happened to you?

When I mean by too comfortable is not trying to keep the relationship feeling fresh , not trying to keep up appearances (fitness, looks, hygiene), less date nights, etc.

Its something I’ve been noticing, some people get too comfortable and barely try to keep the relationship feeling fresh or stop trying to impress their lover and expect them to never go anywhere or never lose their passion.

I know we all fall of the bandwagon sometimes accidentally or due to unfortunate circumstances, but I’m referring to those who just stopped and expect things to stay the same while their lover keeps trying to improving themselves.

Your turn!