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So, my best friend, let's call him Alex for now. I came over about 3 months ago to hang out after I was done my 2 weeks after coming back from my time. Alex explained to me that when we went to the beach together last year that Sam and he were flirting at the time, I was distracted, but he said I had told him that Sam had a boyfriend and not to get himself in trouble.

Long story short, apparently, when I went to get something from my car while Alex was in the water, Sam felt him and grabbed his Cough. He claims he was sure it happened and that he couldn't be making this up. He only brought it up to me recently becuase he was shy about it. Sam never said anything or acted like anything was up that day.

- One, Sam has been in a relationship for almost three years now. I know she loves her partner, so I'd be surprised she'd throw all that way so easily. However, she has a history of being reckless, so I don't really know.

-Two, Alex has a history of sexual misconduct. Sometimes, I genuinely think it's he doesn't realize how uncomfortable his statements can be. He recently said he wanted to watch me and another girl have lesbian sex for Christmas, and I told him that made me uncomfortable and that I had a boyfriend... who he's met several. He's also joked about taking my virginity when I was a little younger.

- Three, there was no one else there to confirm his story

I personally, I always think you should believe the victim, and I know male sexual assault gets ignored, and it's a big problem. He's my friend, and I care a lot about him. I've noticed since that day she's been more or less very cold towards him, even when he's the one being friendly. So, I have no idea what to do.

So to start my boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. He has been a lot less affectionate the past couple weeks, and really stopped showing me that I matter to him altogether. He still says I love you but that’s only when I say it first and I don’t know if that’s just how he is and if i should lower my expectations. The other day he had oysters for dinner and sent me a screenshot of him googling what oysters do to men for sex (just a brief explanation from google) which i didn’t think much about at all and just thought he was flirting. But then I realized that he took that screenshot almost half an hour before sending it to me. This hasn’t been the first time he’s made me question if he’s seeing someone else but whenever i ask he gets really offensive and makes it seem like i’m the bad one while he continues to avoid and deny the question. I really need help on what I should do and any opinions will be really appreciated!!