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Okay. So this is my friend of four years. There's always been some sexual tension between us. Three years ago he got a girlfriend and a year ago I got a boyfriend, so between that period we never crossed the line, but we still flirted intensely. Before those periods though, he use to touch me. During and before, he complimented me all the time. A year ago, we got matched up in the same classes after a year of being apart. He had his girl, I had my guy. I never really crossed the line because I felt that was unfair to my boyfriend, but my friends with benefits told me once that he saw us being in a relationship. We smoked together sometimes, once he told me he was hoping we'd just be shit faced and have an affair with eachother. He brought up motions of us being together. And shit.

I feel like he did that because he had his girl, so he felt safe saying that stuff, you know? But that's just my theory.

So my boyfriend and I split in January. He and his girlfriend in February . Soon after we kissed, and gradually moved up to sleeping with eachother.

Now. He NEVER brings up the thought of us together. He seems so terrified just at the thought of us being together. I can jokingly call him "Babe" and just in an instant he'd be like, "Don't call me that". Like relax man, I was just joking. LOL. But he calls other girls pet names jokingly, and has noooo problem with that.

I mean like. To be honest, the feelings have always been there. But I'm leaving for a four-year university in September. I'm sure it wouldn't work anyway. And he's one of my closest friends, so why do it if I'm gonna' probably end up losing him? I'm not attached to him. Usually when I have feelings it's like an obsession, but it's not like that with him. I just feel comfortable with him and the idea of not dating him doesn't phase me.

I have my theories, share yours. I like to hear other opinions.

I'm going to go see him tomorrow. Now that we graduated and no one's in our busniess, he'll probably be up front with me.

i liked one of my coworkers for 5 months and i felt he may be liking me too when i first started we would have little covos and things of that nature basically flirting but nothing more we like similar music and sometimes he quiz me to see if i know what band was playing we talked about my type of men and i described him he told me he could make any girl fall for him after 4 months i was getting a little fustrated and started to wonder whether he liked me back he was like finding ways to touch me always joking, staring he only brought up convos when we were in the stock room alone i caught him going through my phone case wallet and let i go then twice i left my phone unlocked without knowing and some of the things he said i knew he could only get it from my phone like contacts names one time i let him borrow my phone to watch netflix he didn't watch but two mins of it acting strange all started when i asked a new coworker to help me get some shoes and i didn't know he was back there and he said to me i get it you guys must be dating ( background on the other coworker since day one he's been flirting with me but i can tell he's a player he likes to talk about his escapades with women but we are always joking and laughing people think we are dating but its obvious we are not) i told him we were not dating and he said well you said hispanic men were your type i had told him this months eairler so after months of waiting on him i decided he didn't like me and i decided to date this other guy (we broke up two days later) and the day he found out he started ignoring me and asking if me and my boyfriend at the time were having sex he broke the lock code to my phone ("were texting too much") and went through it again also answered my phone (was in my purse) and was rude to my best friend (a guy) he didn't even tell me he called i can't stand to be in the same room as him and when i walk in a room he walks out i still like him but some of the things he does is creepy