Okay, so I been kind of flirting with this guy who works at my school. He's a young good looking janitor. I first noticed how attractive he was and we hit it off really after my kind of dorky attempt to talk to him by asking him if he seen my purse which I did not lose, lol. Anyway we talk, we flirt, he gave me his number, we are supposed to go out the whole nine yards. what makes him mysterious is his actions. there are times where he openly flirts with me like we playfully tease each other, he always finds ways to touch me always, i catch hm staring or looking in my direction, he always talks to me when he walks past me. But then there are times where the hugs aren't long or doesn't happen, he would just wave sometimes. even though he gave me his number we would text briefly but then stop. there was one time where i hid his broom and he couldnt find it and kind of was mad at me for like the whole day but then turns out he wasn't or was just teaching me a lesson because when the day ended, it got cold and he saw me leaving and gave me his sweater even though i denied it. its like i get mixed emotions. I don't know. we are supposed to go out next weekend because i finally have free time and so does he. how should prepare myself for this date. like what should i wear, how should i act could he be doing this becasue technically this is his job and i go to school there what to do
ps a little about me and him: i am a soft tomboy meaning that i dont usually wear dresses and heels but i am very attractive (not being cocky) i've had boyfriends and i do wear makeup and stuff i just like to do male oriented activites play video games and etc whatever stereotypes are associated with it. he is a a shy guy who only talks to who he knows but he does know quite a few people. the girls he does know he hugs and the one time he did it in front of me i gave him a look and he has never done it again. other than he is just your average guy, kind of a roughneck type.
ps a little about me and him: i am a soft tomboy meaning that i dont usually wear dresses and heels but i am very attractive (not being cocky) i've had boyfriends and i do wear makeup and stuff i just like to do male oriented activites play video games and etc whatever stereotypes are associated with it. he is a a shy guy who only talks to who he knows but he does know quite a few people. the girls he does know he hugs and the one time he did it in front of me i gave him a look and he has never done it again. other than he is just your average guy, kind of a roughneck type.
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