What is going on, help me decode the dude?

[Anonymous]

Hey hey everyone 🤗 I hope you can help me, so been dating a guy for last 5/6 months (he is studying abroad at min so we been traveling to one another) he flirted with me for 6months before our date to ask me out.

He introduced me to his mom and dad and I introduced him to mine. He messages me all day every day, we are exclusively dating. He has a lot of beautiful women following him on insta (we don't have any pics on insta). He says I can trust him and all that.

Basically I'm confused, he doesn't introduce me as anything except my name and hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend. Am I wasting my time? What is happening?

[spartan55]

Why is what's happening in stupid Instagram affecting you at all? You either trust him, or not.

[Asker]

It's not just Instagram it's just part of it really. It's more we are near 6 months now and he hasn't actually asked me to be his girlfriend. I trust him and know ultimately I have no control over what he chooses to do anyway. I haven't ever dealt with this kind of a situation and I suppose I'm just trying to protect myself as best I can

[Sketti2021]

He's probably talking to a few other girls

[Asker]

You think so? It is a culmination of it all isn't it. So strange because he says he loves me and makes such an effort with me messaging everyday and video calling and everything it's just so confusing 🤷🤷🙈