What is this guy up too, help me understand?

[Anonymous]

So we chatted for 2 weeks 3 months ago and caught up twice. Then when I asked him to hang out he ghosted me. Then he texted me 2 months after to hang out and i politely declined. Then last week he visited my work place 3 times past week and this week I texted him and we caught up. He explained he wanted me to ask him to hang out and beg too because he was sick of asking me. But the last text was me asking him to hang out. So his way to get back at me was to ignore me. He then walked past my work again 2 days after us meeting up again.

What is he doing?

I work in a Cafe. Haven't seen him in aged now he keeps popping up...

[Pyrofox]

Clearly waiting for you to catch the "ball" sort of speak Guys don't typically do things without a purpose. I guess you could say he's sitting sipping a hot drink and just dribbling the ball waiting for you to come play. I guess would be the metaphorical image I'd describe. If you asked me to spin ya an image of what he's doing.

As to why he's showing up probably figures if you won't go to his place and chill he'll just go to the one place he knows you will "HAVE" to be XD. And be like well I've come half way when will you XD.

[spartan55]

Why are you bothering with a flakey shithead like that? Have some self respect.

[DummBlonde_Sally]

Sounds like you’re his back up girl. Some Guys and Girls MUST have a person to pursue, their feelings change when more possibilities are available.

Also It’s normal for guys to pursue the girl, he shouldn’t have to beg you to ask him out. That’s a red flag right there! He sounds like he has low self esteem…