so, there’s a guy and i recently got his number like 3 weeks ago.. we would text everyday but it would be a brief “hey, how you doing?” “how’s your day been?” “what you up to?”. a few conversations have been getting to know each other, but it was consistent. it was basically an every day thing, i would occasionally get a good morning text as well. he lives in town but when we’re communicating like this, he was on vacation. then one day, the conversation got a little sexual.. everything was fine after that. but then he stopped responding right away. i would be on delivered for a few days, while he’s active on instagram and watching my stories. and when we do have conversations, i would only get one reply out of him, before i’m left on delivered again for days. before i got his number, he would always stare at me, very intensely too, and this was something consistent. you would think he was interested in me but now im not sure. he posted something on his story saying to talk to him, and i asked what he was doing this weekend and how we should hang out, especially after all the sexual conversations, but he deleted his story. so it makes me feel like he did it purposely. i sent him a message asking him if he’s not a texting person and he said he doesn’t know. so i told him how i felt, i said im going to be honest, it feels like im bothering you when i text you and you don’t respond. i can leave you alone just let me know. and he hasn’t responded to it yet :(
3 mo
Can someone help me understand this guys behavior?
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This dude sounds mad confusing. On one hand he's always staring at you and the convos were good... but then he gets all hot and cold with the texting? Major mixed signals.
My best guess is he likes the attention you give him but maybe isn't actually trying to take things further for some reason. Could be he's not over an ex or just wants the ego boost without any work. Either way, his actions ain't matching his words.
I'd say don't double text this fool. You told him straight how you feel and now the ball's in his court. If he's actually feeling you, he'll step up and make an effort. But my guess is he'll keep half-assing it cause he likes you as an option, not a priority.
You don't need that wishy-washy crap. Let him sit on delivered for awhile and see if he chases. But don't sit around waiting either - focus on yourself and talk to other dudes too so you're not stuck on this jabroni. You'll for sure find someone who gives you the time of day no problem!
seems busy guy. he probably waiting until he gets home from work
He doesn’t wanna fuck you
his messages said otherwise tho.. he would be like come sit on it, and how he couldn’t wait to see my body in person :(