Help me understand why guys do this?

[Anonymous]

I go to meet a situationship of mine. At this point I know he likes me and finds me incredibly attractive and I like him too. So we were watching tv series and cuddling for a while and he tries to touch me and hold me more intimately but I wasn't sure where I stood. I just laughed it off, then I felt sleepy and fell asleep on his chest and kinda open my eyes to him seamingly pleasuring himself... He notices I woke up and gives me a gentle kiss on the head and hugs me. I actually don't know how to interpret this. Because this happened on our 2-3 date. Should I be offended? I'm not understanding, I didn't feel anything at that moment, i did stay there for few more hours after that and met him couple of times post that. Just in retrospect... It got me thinking.

[NewYorkCity]

You question is definitely confusing and you are not giving us the most important pieces. He likes you, because he wants to have sex with you, this is what guys do and want. After we are having sex with a girl, then slowly but surely we are falling for them both mentally and emotionally and after few years it leads to proposal then marriage then kids. I understand that we are living in times 2023 and beyond, where trusting guys or guys trusting girls is more dangerous than trusting Satan himself, but I think basic biology and how things worked for the past 5000+ years should be simple enough to understand.

[Anonymous]

He wants to fuck. Not much more to it than that lol.
He thought you were asleep and was turned on by you laying on him, and it's easy for us to get a little playful down there when we're fired up.
I'm not saying it's appropriate, but he could do worse things

[SnowedIn]

You got offended because he hugged you? After you were cuddling intimately?

But, to your original question, what is it you're struggling to understand that guys do?

[FunkyMonkee]

What's a situationship? That's not even a real word!!

[Chad345]

That's not cool at all, in my opinion. If you see him again set boundaries.

[ThomasDavid1989]

Situationship, what are you Jersian?

YOU'RE IN A RELATIONSHIP